in august, i was offered a "promotion" from Office Manager to 50% Office Manager/50% Events Marketing Executive.
November 25,2022 at 3:42AM UTC
I work for a sports betting tech company and attended my first event with the new title in October, after my return i got my feedback some super positive, some negative. I took it and i planned to fix my mistakes. well, few weeks later, and i just got told i am no longer part of the marketing team, because i am just not poised enough to be customer facing. 1) half the time i never stepped foot in front of a "customer" during the conference. 2) that statement was made based of an assumption that i showed up to the event hungover, which i did not and would never do. 3) instead of allowing me a 2nd chance to prove myself, they degrade my reputation with the company and proceed to tell me i should focus on the job that i do well (office management). i have already shared with multiple people that i didn't stay with the company 3 years to stay stuck as an office manager. I stayed so i could grow and felt that they had the opportunities available. now maybe marketing wasn't for me, but now i feel stuck again and im being told by my manager that we will "expand" on the office manager position. also I am one of few females in the office location im at, and i am the only person in the office to ever be told i must hold onto a position 50/50. im not looking to be told to leave my company, but looking for suggestions on how i can expand my office manager position to be something bigger as well as how i can educate myself and fix things so that my reputation isnt tarnished and i someday can prove that i am poised enough to be customer facing.
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Follow up again two weeks after 3rd interview + reference check?
Applied for a position in December. Interviewed first week of January. It was a positive interview and the hiring manager emailed to say that they thought I'd be a good addition. Did a second interview with more technical questions. Did a third interview with the head of the department, who asked for my references. They called at least one of my references, who let me know that it sounded like they really liked me. Last I heard was "We'll be in touch shortly" after I sent them the references.
Two weeks later...crickets. Just keep waiting, or write a friendly followup to hiring manager that I'm still interested in the position?
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Looking to move up without overshadowing someone
I am in a contract senior role with a new company (about 7 months in) and very much experienced but has always been challenged with speaking up for fear of stepping on someone who is now my direct manager. I like her a lot and even tho she is much younger, I know I can learn a lot since she has been with the company a lot longer than I am. Looking for some insights on how to frame my ideas or opinions during calls without overstepping and still stay humble about it.
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Has anyone experienced an interview process like this?
I recently had a 3rd interview with the owner of facilities who is opening a new location in my area. The position is one in management. The owner does not live here and has to fly in to meet with me.
The process thus far has raised red flags. My 3rd interview was initially scheduled for first week of January. It was then pushed back a week, and then delayed again. It was delayed 4 times. A date was finally set but then it took until a few days before to receive a time.
The morning of the interview I was contacted by the owner. He stated that his flight was delayed and he would need to meet with me an hour later.
I finally get to the interview and it’s a mess. His phone keeps going off with phone, text, and email notifications - for which he gave me a play by play. He answers a few calls during the interview.
When we were reaching the tail end of the interview he asked me a final question. In the middle of me answering he stopped me and told me he needed to send an email before the top of the next hour.
I waited for 10 minutes as he became frustrated with something online. Eventually he returned to our conversation but could not recall what question he had asked me, let alone my response.
My concern is how he operates. He’s very inconsiderate and it makes me worry about how it would be to work for him. I’m especially concerned that the time line he has provided for my start date, deadlines for initial priority work, and opening of the facility are subject to change significantly.
He has so far been unreliable when adhering to commitments. I don’t want to put in notice at my job only for him to say “oh hey, I need you to start in 5 weeks instead.”
The issue is that my current role has become increasingly difficult due to upper management having continual emotional struggles on a regular basis. I want to leave my role but I don’t want to walk into an equally difficult situation.
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Very depressed at current job.
i realize that the team that I’m on is just not for me and I don’t have a way of moving around either, I just rather look for work elsewhere. Main problem with my team is lack of support from not only my co workers but my manager. Been here almost a year and I feel like I’m managing her and my co workers more than she managing us. It just feels degrading to have people making more money than you not doing their job. My manager basically has a “do whatever you want” kind of energy which you would think is great but unfortunately I’m the one who picks up all the slack when others do whatever they want. I have spoken to her and her boss several times and it’s not changing. Looking for work is also very depressing. Just tryna stay hopeful that I’ll soon find a job that won’t make me break down. People who have been at their jobs 4+ years have no idea how lucky they are, even if they aren’t too happy with the job they at least are satisfied enough to stay. Would appreciate any encouraging advice, thank yall!
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I am constantly harrassed by my boss in the following ways.
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