Honestly, this is such a coin toss. Especially not knowing the details of the situation with your old company or the culture of the new one/their recruiting team.
My personal opinion... Just breathe and see what happens. Outside of getting ahead of it and telling them before they hear it from them, what can you do until you are or are not asked about it? Would all the other companies likely say they would? There's a chance they won't even end up calling the one you're worried about. There's a chance they will and they will say yes to avoid further issues for discrimination. There's a chance they'll say no but the new company won't mark that against you because other, better companies said yes. (As someone who works in HR, sometimes we're familiar with other company cultures and not fitting into a culture we deem as bad is not a red flag!).
Anyway, of course there's a chance it could hurt your chances, but you don't have a lot of control on that front. The fact is it's a part of your experiences and they are doing their job of trying to make a judgment call on an applicant pool. I have a feeling the stress of that experience in the past is making the anxiety of it coming up even worse than it probably needs to be. There's actually a pretty decent chance it doesn't even impact you. There are many personal factors of the recruiting process you have control over but this is one of many others that you just don't. Maybe think through how you'll briefly explain if they ask, then try not to spend too much energy worrying about it. It's probably way worse in your head than it would look to them, if they ever even find out.
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