I'm a recovering alcoholic and I was called out by my employer.
It was the step I needed to enter rehab...I'm just a few weeks shy of being 5 years sober. Some thoughts on this question from someone who has truly been there.
-Obviously you'll need to check with HR to see what procedure is when dealing with drug or alcohol use. Skating around the issue, asking if everything is OK at or outside of work will do NOTHING! Please don't sugar coat your questions. Be direct and say you think the employee is under the influence or using during work hours.
-All addicts are arrogant! I speak from experience. Until I got called out by my employer, there were few if any consequences to my drinking. I would drink in the car on the way to work, I would get pulled over by the cops as I drank on my way to work but b/c I drove a nice car and would be in business gear, I would always get let go with a warning. I brazenly went out at lunch and drank, I brought bottles of vodka into work with my in my purse. Despite slurring my way through meetings, there were never any consequences to my behavior UNTIL I got called out at work.
-My employer told me that people had complained about my alcohol use. They were VERY clear: if we catch you drinking you will be terminated. Read: consequences to my behavior!
-The biggest gift you can give anyone at your workplace is to clearly explain consequences to behaviors. If you need to, give them a breathelizer or a random drug test. If you suspect addiction, think about the liability to the organization. This is NOT being mean, you will enable the addict if you continue to facilitate their behaviors by not calling it out.
-If you suspect this person is drinking on the job, please do yourself a favor and scan the workplace for things like bottles of liquor, wine or beer. Think about the environment you allow in the workplace. Its not on the workplace to accommodate the addict, but consider how you best set up your employees for success.
-Please connect with a recovering addict before you approach this employee. I can't possibly imagine someone who is not an addict or a person in recovery trying to accurately capture all the deceit and arrogance we as addict weave into our every day lives.
Best of luck with next steps. I truly appreciate your curiosity about the best way to navigate this situation.
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