What's the best style advice you've ever gotten ?

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April 1,2019 at 9:50PM UTC

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AnonymousApril 1,2019 at 10:17PM UTC
When in doubt, wear black.
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Isha MudgilApril 2,2019 at 12:10AM UTC
Be comfortable
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Courtney KleinApril 22,2019 at 7:56PM UTC
Yeeeeeeeeeeees. This is so key!
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AnonymousApril 2,2019 at 10:58AM UTC
Bring sandals for the reception. I always bring an extra pair.
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Lady PeleApril 2,2019 at 11:47AM UTC
The two I remember most are 1) be fitted for your bras as the right bra can make a world of difference and 2) put your money into a few good staples and then fill in around them.
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Kimberly SullivanApril 2,2019 at 1:05PM UTC
Quality, not quantity! Better to be overdressed than underdressed! Put on accessories then remove one before you go... ???
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AnonymousApril 2,2019 at 3:41PM UTC
Yes! I absolutely agree with quality, not quantity.
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Sierra ModroApril 2,2019 at 2:45PM UTC
Fit trumps price. It’s better to wear a $50 dress that’s tailored to fit me perfectly than to wear a $300 dress that doesn’t quite fit. Budget in the tailoring.
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Mistress of MinitabApril 2,2019 at 2:55PM UTC
Authenticity is visible: wear real silver instead of fake gold (if you can't afford real gold jewelry). Wear no more than 5 pieces of jewelry (a pair of earrings is considered one item ?).
Purchase a few pieces of high end clothing that you love and will wear often instead of many low quality items that you may not feel confident in. Think of it as amortizing the cost of good clothing over its life. Is it better to buy a $200 silk shirt that you'll wear at least 40 times over 3 years ($5/wearing or less) or a $40 shirt that loses shape and fades after 5 washes so it ends up costing $8/wear or more and has to be replaced in 3 months.
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AnonymousApril 2,2019 at 4:49PM UTC
Make sure your outfit is overall classic and then add pops of "wow" little by little.
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Tamara R.April 3,2019 at 12:33PM UTC
Give yourself a point for each color of your clothes and each accessory (makeup and a non-neutral nail color are also each 1 point). You should wear 10 - 15 points. Less is boring. More is too busy.
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Courtney KleinApril 22,2019 at 7:57PM UTC
This is a really cool idea that I'll admit I fail miserably at. Counting nails and makeup, today I'm at... 5 :D and this is a colorful day for me!
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Tarah KeechApril 3,2019 at 12:53PM UTC
Everything Bridgette Raes has ever written! Her color palates are saved in my favorites, her base accent pop formula is magic, don't "wishful wardrobe," and avoid duplicate pieces.
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KymberleeApril 3,2019 at 1:31PM UTC
I always were a sparkling great piece of jewelry and a bright color
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Elizabeth WestApril 3,2019 at 6:11PM UTC
Only buy something if you love it. If you feel "iffy" about it in the store or like one aspect of it but not another, such as like the color but not the fabric or neckline, you will not wear it and it will be a waste of money. Before you buy something, think about whether you have the shoes, accessories, etc. you need to go with it or if you would need to invest in several other new items before it becomes an outfit. Finally, if the shoes hurt you in the store, they will TORTURE you if you purchase them; never buy shoes that don't feel good in the store.
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Ellen W.April 7,2019 at 2:25PM UTC
I agree with all, especially the shoes! I have a few pair in my closet that I can't wear because after a couple of minutes they KILL my feet. Loving the way they look isn't enough.
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Crystal RhinebergerApril 3,2019 at 7:52PM UTC
What not to wear always preached cut trumps print
Boy are they correct! Proper cut that fits is always the best
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gmbrady2April 4,2019 at 1:37PM UTC
Know your body type and dress for it. Also, never chase trends. What's "in" today will be "out" in six months or less. (Anyone remember the shrug?) The classics will never let you down.
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TinaBApril 4,2019 at 9:55PM UTC
First, break all the rules.
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Donna MacdonaldApril 8,2019 at 1:33PM UTC
Buy only pieces that make you feel great!
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AnonymousApril 19,2019 at 4:25PM UTC
If the shoes are slightly uncomfortable when you're trying them on, they'll be even worse when you start trying to walk in them.
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Courtney KleinApril 22,2019 at 8:09PM UTC
"Wear something you can move in." When I was young, my mom always made me do high kicks, a few squats, and throw a couple of punches in whatever I was trying on. I thought it was silly, but enjoyed the exercise. Once I started shopping exclusively for myself, I kept this rule and couldn't be happier. I'm comfortable throughout the day and never have to worry about that last minute rush to make the train.
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Tamara R.April 23,2019 at 12:09PM UTC
My mom did the same thing - sit down, bend over and touch your toes, etc.!
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Courtney KleinApril 23,2019 at 7:55PM UTC
Clearly our mothers were on to something!
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Jenny TravensApril 30,2019 at 10:40AM UTC
I once bought a peach coloured trouser and thought I'll steal some attention but it turned terrible. Soon I realized I am not the one to flaunt such colors with confidence.
Not everything that looks pleasing to your eyes would look good on you so try before picking a top or an accessory!
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