I agree with 99% of this with one small caveat… I don’t suggest concerning yourself with ensuring your references are NOTHING but positive.
Sure, you don’t want the situation described here, where a potential employer is reaching out to someone that does not have a high opinion of the candidate. However, honesty about shortcomings isn’t terrible, as long as they have more to say about your positive qualities and overall contribution. After all, a negative in one situation could be an asset in a new environment.
My references told my last employer things like “oh, she’s brilliant and works very hard but if you’re looking for someone to do the same repetitive tasks day in and out, she’s probably not a good fit.” “She has a bold personality and curses a lot”
Maybe those are not “positive” but I certainly don’t want to try and thrive in an environment where those things are not accepted. They still hired me and my supervisor got exactly what she expected… I did some killer process development and streamlining for her team.
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