Hi ladies!

Hi ladies! I apologize I’m advance for this being (probably) long and (probably) confusing.

My dream job was ripped out from under me at the end of March when I was told that my position was not being transitioned over to the company that was acquiring mine. The new acquiring company (let’s call them company A) is a huge well-known company that almost everyone would know. After job searching frantically for weeks (and dozens of interviews), someone I met at company A made me an offer to join her team ($3k salary increase, equivalent title). I obviously accepted since I would otherwise be out of a job, but was still feeling quite disheartened by how it played out. I’ve since started this new job and am enjoying it so far. Being such a large company it is very silohed, but the team seems very supportive and friendly.

This is where it gets complicated.

In the time that I was interviewing heavily, I applied at Company B, which is in an industry that I’m very familiar and comfortable with and through my interviews it became clear to me that was the job I wanted. Company B offered me $10k more, but isn’t as well-known and is much smaller. My role would be much more broad and I would be the SME or point of contact for a much broader scope of work.

Any suggestions on deciding between these two roles? Most of the other benefits (bonus, health benefits, PTO) are very similar except that Company A offers 6 weeks maternity leave and I don’t believe Company B offers anything (and I am extremely hesitant to ask).

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  1. Sabrina Cortes

    Follow your gut instinct; it's usually right.

  2. Tamara Allen

    I can almost always trust my gut, but I can’t seem to find what it’s trying to tell me this time!

  3. Sabrina Cortes

    Mmmm - writing is a good outlet (at least it is for me). Maybe try writing things out - even though you don't know what to do can be a release and provide some clarity and free your mind from the mental fatigue this might be causing.

  4. Anonymous

    Extremely different opportunities.

    If you like comfort, safety and predictability the A.

    If you don't mind risk in exchange for growth, a little uncertainty and career movement the B.

  5. Amy Holmes

    Google maternity leave and Company B and see what you can find anything. Often you can, even through Glassdoor or similar sites. Sometimes it will give you a direct connection to the site. In CA you are entitled to maternity leave, but not necessarily paid maternity leave unless the company provides it. $10k more at Company B may be enough to save up for a few weeks or maternity leave? If it's the job you really, really want, then I would consider it.

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