I need help. I have not applied to any jobs after being laid off three times since the pandemic.

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1. Paulla Fetzek, MSEdFebruary 5,2025 at 2:00PM UTC

   Firstly, I'm so very sorry that you're going through this.

   The job market has been horrific for many months. I'm fortunate to have a full-time job, but I am looking for a part-time job that will help me pay for school as well as other expenses which have increased recently. The greatest frustration is that people aren't responding - even to notify people they weren't chosen.

   Have you looked into perhaps doing side gigs, or maybe tutoring? There are many remote opportunities to teach English for overseas students. I can't pursue this with my FT job, but maybe it's something to consider?

   Wishing you all the best.

2. AnonymousFebruary 5,2025 at 2:38PM UTC

   Yes! It’s all about networking! I’ve posted this many times here. I’m old enough to have found jons through the classifieds but every job since has been indirectly the result of a connection including people from my congregation.

   But when I’m in search mode I make sure that everyone is aware that I’m looking. This is how I got hired last time.

   I had been out of work for five years when an acquaintance from my synagogue called to see if I was still unemployed. That was 10 years ago and I’m still there! I barely knew this woman but she remembered hearing I was out of work when I first got laid off.

3. Frugallola FindsFebruary 6,2025 at 12:06AM UTC

   First, I want to acknowledge how tough this situation is for you. It’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed and discouraged after experiencing multiple layoffs, especially during such a challenging time. You are definitely not alone in feeling this way. Many people are grappling with similar emotions and uncertainty right now. I know I am.

   It's important to remind yourself that these layoffs are not a reflection of your skills or worth as a worker. You've demonstrated resilience by continuing to pursue work since you were 13 years old, and that speaks volumes about your dedication. The job market has changed significantly, and many people are feeling lost in it as well.

   Focusing on social media, blogging, and LinkedIn is a great way to process your feelings and connect with others who are going through similar experiences. Journaling your emotions about the job market can help you gain clarity and cope with what you’re feeling. You might even find inspiration or motivation from sharing your journey, which can help both you and others who are in the same boat.

   As for applying for jobs, it’s okay to take a break and regroup. Sometimes the pressure of submitting applications can make the process feel even more daunting. It can help to set small, manageable goals for yourself—perhaps start with updating your resume or LinkedIn profile instead of diving straight into applications.

   Considering starting your own company is a big step, but it shows that you have entrepreneurial spirit and expertise. While it’s understandable to want to pay the bills, perhaps you can explore freelance work or consulting in the meantime, which could allow you to leverage your skills without the pressure of a full-time commitment right away.

   Lastly, don't hesitate to reach out for support—be it from friends, family, or professional networks. Connecting with others who understand your struggles can be incredibly uplifting.

   Remember, it’s okay to feel how you’re feeling, and taking small steps forward is a sign of progress. You've already displayed tremendous strength by navigating these challenges, and I believe you’ll find your path forward. You’ve got this!