I'm so tired of ghosting!

Anonymous

August 1,2022 at 5:19PM UTC

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I'm so tired of ghosting! It's one thing if you send a resume in and don't hear anything back. That being said, if you've taken the time to interview and follow up without any response, it turns into a bad reflection of the company.

While I realize it's difficult to respond to every applicant, I would rather receive a form email reply so I know to move on than continue to wonder.

In addition, if I've taken the time to follow up, a simple, the position has been filled or we're moving on with other applicants is all I need.

I don't want to sue the company or create a scene. With each position taking months of rounds and work, knowing that you're not in the running always candidates to move on and focus on other opportunities.

Keeping them dangled on a string is cruel. If the shoe was on the other foot, wouldn't you want to know? There are some wonderful HR contacts out there but for the others, please add humanity back into human resources!

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AnonymousAugust 1,2022 at 8:11PM UTC
part of the application process is applying to quality jobs aligned with your skillset and the other is a numbers game. If you have time to think about recruiters ghosting you, try to channel that energy into applying for more jobs, getting creative with your networking. One good ex is list your top 15-20 companies you would like to work for. And then find professionals in linked in that work in exact or closely related job functions you would like to work in. Start a conversation and try to build a connection. Doing so overtime may cause them to keep you in mind when new jobs are about to hit and they can recommend you for jobs you did not even know were coming down the pipeline.
Yes, you have every right to get frustrated, but if you remain persistent and proactive like you currently are, just say to yourself, a year from now you will be sitting comfortable in a job you desire. Practice positive affirmations to tell yourself everyday to keep your spirits and motivation up. Pray over the jobs that interest you. You want a place that will support your growth short term and long term right? Don't get discouraged, you are almost there, you can do it, you will do it!
AnonymousAugust 1,2022 at 8:27PM UTC
Thank you for the positive spin on the situation! I'm making those connections and that's how I've been fortunate to get some of the interviews. It's just disheartening to put so much time into the process and then there's isn't even a negative reply. Rejection hurts but allows you to mentally move forward. The on-going hope of maybe I'm still being considered while applying for other jobs is both hopeful and draining.
AnonymousAugust 1,2022 at 9:01PM UTC
I hear you and truly feel your pain. But I am glad the networking is working. It will pay off in the end, so you are already on the right track.
Keep it up your breakthrough is near, don't get discouraged. I don't know you but even I am getting amped for when you get your dream job you busted your arse to finally get. Its near, believe it!
AnonymousAugust 4,2022 at 4:00PM UTC
Thank you so much, Anonymous. Your kind words and support mean a lot during this challenging time. I have another interview this afternoon and I'm ready to focus on what's ahead that I can control instead of what I can't!
AnonymousAugust 4,2022 at 8:48PM UTC
Awesome! Good Luck!