Ghosting in the world of work.

Ghosting in the world of work.

Ghosting has (unfortunately) been a popular trend in the world of work since the pandemic began in 2020. On our community feed alone, our community members have written about their experiences of being ghosted as potential hires, employees, and employers alike.

Have you ever been ghosted during a job search? If so, how did you bounce back from it?

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  1. Julie Humbird

    In 2019 I was helping a large University hire tech talent. We were ghosted by candidates 6 times.

  2. Joan Williams, Senior Talent Acquisition Specialist

    I'm a recruiter and I get ghosted on the regular.
    It sucks.

    I deal with it by not getting too invested in the process until a company tells me they want to make me an offer.

  3. Echo Schneider

    It's sad but true this is a reality for sure! I work in an industry where there are recruiters/headhunters as go-betweens for new projects and work.

    They will call me and say they URGENTLY need to submit my application in the next hour and I should have an interview by tomorrow, and then a week passes and crickets.

    It's not something to get hung up on, move on to the next!

  4. Sarah Kebea

    Thank you for sharing!

  5. Barb Hansen

    How I have dealt with ghosting during a job search is that I just expect to be ghosted.

    I follow up with recruiters or hiring managers after interviews a few times b/c I expect that they will not follow up with me.

    I try to find alternate paths to the hiring manager b/c I expect that my resume will not make it past ATS or first review by an internal recruiter.

    Then when a recruiter or hiring manager follows up with me after a resume submission or any interview, I'm thrilled.

  6. Anonymous

    It's so unfortunate that we have to have this mindset now!

  7. Sarah Kebea

    I am so sorry your husband and nephew's wife are going through this situation!

  8. Anonymous

    I have been ghosted often as of recently even during my job hunt. Don’t let it be a discouraging factor but one that redirects you to the next opportunity. Although it can be annoying, keep the focus on the end goal which is to move forward in your career. And keep all

    your energy for when you are in contact with the recruiters interested in you.

  9. Sarah Kebea

    I love this positive outlook!

  10. Jackie Ghedine

    Interviewing is a degrading process and the addition of ghosting has made it even worse.

    As a career coach, here is what I always say to those who get ghosted in the interview process, be thankful!

    What are you talking about, you may ask?

    Interviewing is all about finding a position and an organization to fit your needs. This means a culture of respect. Take the ghosting as a sign of a culture that doesn't put human capital even in their top 5 priorities and it isn't someplace you want to work.

  11. Sarah Kebea

    This is a great way to look at it! Thank you for sharing!

  12. Anonymous

    Not for nothing, but if you think interviewing is a degrading process, you're doing it wrong.

    Interviewing is how you drill down and find out as much information as you can so you can make an informed decision about whether that is the right opportunity for you. It's your best chance to find yourself a great position.

  13. Jackie Ghedine

    I should clarify to say, the job search...

    When people are getting ghosted after 5 interviews, told they have too much experience because they are older or the worst scenarios, when someone has an ethnic name and their resume is rejected yet when they reapply through the software as Kate they get an interview, this is degrading.

  14. Anonymous

    I got to my final interview and emailed the company several times about feedback or anything and they have ghosted me.
    Can I ask for my money back for the expenses i used to travel to the company for the interviews? Time is money!

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