I work in learning and development with DEI across EMEA, for a company that has grown through acquisition, my role is to develop a standard approach across the Region (I joined in January this year).

I work in learning and development with DEI across EMEA, for a company that has grown through acquisition, my role is to develop a standard approach across the Region (I joined in January this year). However, my line manager is male, as is the rest of the HR leadership team. They have all worked in the organisation for a minimum of 15 years, and are resistent to change. They meet regularly on a Friday afternoon (virtually, as they’re in different countries) for a ‘boys club’ meeting (their words) where they discuss the current issues and make decisions together,. My line manager has told me that focusing on increasing the number of women in leadership is no value and is discriminatory towards men, despite me positioning the argument in different ways, he says we should simply buy women in the business a bunch of flowers and they will feel valued and appreciated.

As increasing the number of women in senior positions is part of my remit, (head office is in the USA and targets are set by the US team) I’m struggling to secure any financial investment or backing from the company as the HR leadership team are blocking it. Has anyone any experience of how I can influence them and make them listen? I’ve tried story telling, presenting the facts, presenting the data, presenting the best practice…but to no avail!

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  1. Anonymous

    Can you focus your argument on profilinh of your industry and highlighting their specific competition? I would also let the presentation hit a wider audience in US and other countries. Pressure from outside and above your group might move the needle.

  2. Anonymous

    I understand that the data has been presented to them a number of times, but they’re comfortable in their roles and as an organisation length of service is valued higher than ‘rocking the boat’. I like the idea though of pressure from other sources…maybe the presentation could focus on the business impact of NOT supporting women/having a sexist culture and the impact it has on attrition/EVP. Thank you for your suggestions!

  3. Miriam Escobar H

    I understand your frustration, but changes in organizational culture always take time. The first piece of advice: Stay focused and be patient, every small step is a win.

    From what you mention I imagine that you have already presented satisfaction surveys and showed dissatisfaction with the lack of opportunities for women at management levels.

    Cultural changes are difficult without the support of top management, if you are in charge of promoting women's leadership lean on those who entrusted you with the task, if you do not have the support of some internal top management I am afraid it will be quite difficult but not impossible. Try to reach the CEO or the local head with your internal results, analysis and data obtained from employees, you must be very strategic in doing so to not generate antibodies that will make your goal much more difficult.

  4. Anonymous

    Thanks for this, I like to think I can make an impact and start to shift the culture in some way. I don’t think it’s coming from a bad place, but it is going to take allies in the SLT to make a change and actually hold individuals to account when sexism is observed. Thanks for your suggestions!

  5. JJ

    I would quit on principle if my leadership team had an exclusive “boy’s club” meeting that they actually called “boy’s club” out loud in real life. I am so sorry you are in this horrible situation.

  6. Anonymous

    being honest, I’ve considered it…however I genuinely don’t believe they do it to ‘exclude’ women consciously, I think it’s cultural.
    They are based in the Netherlands, Italy and Finland and they’ve all got a minimum of 15-20 years service under each of their belts, I don’t think they know any different. I am trying now to establish whether they are likely to change…as unfortunately I don’t think they’re going anywhere any time soon!

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