Everyone but me was told that I'm now responsible for multiple director level responsibilities.

Everyone but me was told that I'm now responsible for multiple director level responsibilities.

I'm not exaggerating, the rapidly increasing expectations on me are responsibilities that were previously carried out together by TWO co directors! Short story even shorter: Our department manager was promoted to co direct a new larger formation including our department but now with multiple locations. She resigned and the other co director left and likely will not return. At the time our manager was promoted, I was promoted to "co" manager of our one team within the larger formation. Now that we have no directors, I've been increasingly tasked with director duties for the entire formation, and this was not spoken of until I brought it up after I was introduced by email as the "head" of the larger formation. My direct supervisor acted surprised that I didn't know, which is bizarre and frightening since he knows perfectly well that I still very little power to implement what's being demanded of me and dozens of people are being directed to me to accomplish what I literally cannot. Essentially I'm being expected to accept unknown amounts of responsibility with no end in sight, expect the point at which the director position is filled and I'll have to train my boss who's getting more money than me. Is this a common practice? What would make an organization think this would lead to anything other than burn out and resignation? I feel like the proverbial frog in boiling water. I have no way of knowing what is expected of me, no expectation of promotion that would reflect my duties, and no one within the organization to get clarity from. Any suggestions appreciated!

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  1. Anonymous

    I'd suggest you polish your resume.

    You training your boss - either you are training your replacement- or place is dysfunctional in many ways (everyone is "playing house")

    I've been dumped on like you described and my mental health plummeted- I normally can handle anything, but the organization proved me wrong. Bad on many levels.

    I'm not sure how long you've been there, but I do know you can do better

  2. Anonymous

    Everyone that comes to you to assist with tasks you can't accomplish send the to the new director or you old co-director for assistance with an explanation that you are not equipped to assist them but so- and-so can. Copy the entire hierarchy that makes sense.

    This happens in many nonprofits and smaller dysfunctional companies.

    Your organization is top heavy and hasn't assessed their operational matrix.

  3. Anonymous

    I'm not OP, but I agree with you 110%

  4. Anonymous

    Thank you all so much, that's been my sneaking suspicion, that "well, you're doing it so why pay you more for a more appropriate title?" Please keep me in your thoughts!!

  5. Moonah

    Companies do this all the time to save money. I worked for a company, every time a director left, they gave the responsibility to another director and didn't fill the vacant role.

  6. Anonymous

    Similar situation because of another team’s reorganization.
    Don’t assume getting “higher level” responsibilities means a promotion. Take stock of everything you’re now doing in excess of original role. Get written (email) feedback from people on how successfully you completed xyz and keep a file of it. Look for ways to increase or broaden professional development if you can without overburdening yourself. Start looking at opportunities elsewhere to gage if and when leaving may become necessary for your heath and well-being.

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