In March 2024, I resigned from my job effective immediately.

In March 2024, I resigned from my job effective immediately. I had been the program director for two supportive housing buildings, with two different sets of staff, clients, vendors, etc. Other directors' salaries were higher than mine, and they only managed one site. I had been there for a year, and it was a struggle to convince the executive director to approve funds in my budget for cameras, light bulbs, and walkie-talkies, which were necessary to operate a building. The staff was ill-equipped to do their jobs, so I implemented training and other methods to monitor their work. I had an admin. assistant who happened to come from the same company I had been with previously, and the staff, at the command of one employee in particular, who was a known troublemaker throughout the company, to complain that I had been playing favorites with my admin. assistant because she claimed we were friends. In addition, the employee threatened me (she was terminated because of that); however, they moved my admin assistant to another building and told me that that was one way of stopping the staff of accusing me of playing favorites and if I needed to meet with her, I would have to travel to the other location. I was already traveling to two sites, and now I would have to travel to another. I asked HR and the executive director to reconsider this decision. They refused and instead began, very nastily, criticizing the duties I had my admin assistant perform. The complaints and the accusations began right after I had surgery and broke my ankle, for which I spent three weeks working from home and met with my team of clinical supervisors, operations director, and admin assistant to ensure all bases were covered. While I was away, there had been some altercations between the admin assistant and the staff, and this is when the staff decided to complain.BTW, I took these issues to the board of directors with receipts and both the executive director an human resources director were terminated.

After I left, I did some consulting work for about three months after that, but have been unable to find employment. In the meantime, I completed my MPA.

My situation: On interviews, rather than saying I had resigned, should I say I took the time off to finish my studies? Is there something else I should say?

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  1. Anonymous

    What’s your question??

  2. Anonymous

    I'm confused. Are you venting? Are you asking a question? What's going on?

  3. Anonymous

    Why would you resign when you were vindicated? That never happens.

  4. Anonymous

    Not true. I resigned because I have one life to live, I'm talented and driven and deserve to work in a place where I can have job satisfaction and contribute in a meaningful way aligned with my values and goals. If people want to be dramatic, play politics, or foster an otherwise unhealthy work culture, as an professional, I chose to remove myself from the situation despite being excellent at my job, well liked, etc. I'm living my life, it's not living me. Good job on the OP to leave to protect her sanity.

  5. Lillian Rodriguez

    Dear Anonymous, Thank you for helping me organize my thoughts. There were other things I did not mention in my post but this incident was the last straw for me. I am ranting, venting and the question I have never made it to my post (my fault). My question however is, I never regretted my decision however, I wonder what do I give a reason for leaving - do say I resigned so that I can take time to complete my master's degree, do I tell them there were disagreements?

  6. Anonymous

    Definitely go with option 1. You definitely want to avoid painting your former employer in a negative light. Ultimately, that doesn't make you look good.

  7. Anonymous

    If asked say you resigned to pursue other opportunities. If you went back to school during the gap then tell them that. Don’t bring in the bad reasons you left. Discord doesn’t play well in interviews. Let that go and look forward to starting over and hopefully you earned a new degree in the meantime.

  8. Rosa Goes

    It sounds like the company was toxic. You tried to make it work but it backfired on you. I would do some research on how best to present the situation when asked 'why did you leave' by a prospective employer. You could also get in touch with a recruiter to get their thoughts. From what you mentioned, it sounds like management was not supportive of your recommendations to improve the buildings. I hope you find a good opportunity soon. Good luck to you!

  9. Anonymous

    Actually you do not have to give a reason just be cordial and resign.

  10. Anonymous

    At interviews say you and the executive staff had different visions for supportive housing you were PD in.

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