8 self-love reminders you could use today

Penny

July 31,2020 at 11:07AM UTC

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When we make a mistake, our focus can easily shift to negative thoughts, without ever taking into account the positives of the situation. If you are unsure about how to start your day or how to get back into a positive mindset, here are some reminders you can say out loud, think I’m about, or write down to get yourself back in the self-love track.

1. I create my own future.
2. I deserve to ask for my needs.
3. I am so loved by so many.
4. My voice and opinion matter.
5. I am beautiful.
6. I’m smart and talented.
7. It’s okay to ask for help or say “no” to others.

Hope everyone has a great day!

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Maria MolinariJuly 31,2020 at 11:22AM UTC
I love these reminders! It's all about self-love, if you believe you can, you WILL! Thanks for sharing some positivity today!!
Avany JohnsonJuly 31,2020 at 11:38AM UTC
These are wonderful and timely. Thank you!
Tarlease JonesJuly 31,2020 at 8:04PM UTC
thank you for this. it means so much to me especially on a day like today. This are beautiful and i have written them down to share with my teenage daughter.
I AM WORTHY..
Christina CordAugust 1,2020 at 3:57PM UTC
I love seeing this. It is so important to see and remind ourselves of these every so often, if not daily!
AnonymousAugust 3,2020 at 1:03PM UTC
Thanks for these wonderful reminders! I would also say, let's be forgiving of ourselves as every moment is a learning opportunity through this journey of life.
Sarah HernandezAugust 3,2020 at 3:08PM UTC
so hard and important to remember! I am starting some healing from months of gaslighting from my direct manager, and these really hit me hard.
Faith NganiAugust 4,2020 at 12:53PM UTC
Sometimes I forget how talented and smart I am. Thanks for the reminder.
Janice EnochAugust 5,2020 at 12:51PM UTC
Self love is so important to me and I believe everyone should practice daily tips to uplift themselves and to constantly remind ourselves that we are loved especially in these difficult times. I practice daily self love habits such as taking a break from work to either go for a walk or take a quick spin class, reciting daily positive affirmations and surrounding myself with positive people.
Xiomara HenriquezAugust 5,2020 at 3:54PM UTC
I love these affirmations. Great way to ground yourself when everything feels out of control.
Jessica K.August 6,2020 at 6:33PM UTC
Thanks for sharing this! Good to take a step back from our busy lives and reflect.
Estephania SolisAugust 7,2020 at 6:33PM UTC
Thank you for the wonderful mantras and encouragement!
AnonymousAugust 11,2020 at 2:09PM UTC
love this!
Leslie CalebAugust 14,2020 at 2:09PM UTC
Absolutely fabulous! Thank you for sharing these affirmation. And as Louise Hay used to say : "Love is the great miracle cure. Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives."