I'm sorry you're going through this. Yes, sometimes personalities are at play and make it a cause for change.
Some ideas:
-Same company, just another job. (another site, corporate HQ--some chains have managerial training programs).
-Same field, different company (another restaurant, or a training program or school).
-Same skills, different field (e.g. retail rather than restaurant)
-Side hustle (consultant to those in your field or another passion/skill you have).
-Start your own -franchise or business.
-Highlight or start volunteering (to round out skills, esp. if you want out of restaurant work).
-If you have some money, consider training- take a course in skills of interest (Customer Service, management, business. think of a skill you want to learn or something you're good at: people, policies, cooking, etc). Perhaps there's a degree that you know will help.
To answer your question- Let's unpack that. You say you have no network. You have a network, you just may have to get creative. I completely understand a trap we may find ourselves in if our colleagues are no longer allies and if friends/families have their limitations, but you have a network. Think of a pebble that you drop in a lake. Visualize or draw it out if it helps. You're the pebble, form many rings after that. the ring closest to you are strong bonds and/or people you don't know yet are physically close to you. Each outer ring is further removed from you. Think of neighbors where you live and work, people from school (friends, teachers, staff, alumni networks from other years), the company you work at- maybe there's a chain community you could leverage (either ask or just tell them that I worked at X location, loved it there , time for a change, can you help m relocate). Local business associations or chamber of commerce. If you feel you can, ask your boss or whomever is influential where you work to help give you a good reference---only ask when you're leaving to risk not being fired). Do you volunteer? Ask anyone you know well for help finding work. Steer them in the right direction. Maybe they can open a door for you. If it fits your needs, try it. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
If there are companies you frequent and like, tell them and ask if they're hiring and ask if you could ask them how best to be a desirable candidate. Ask those close to you some insight questions about your skills, what you could work on, what industry they see you in, etc. Take it with a grain of salt. Make a plan (e.g. different plans depending on if you stay in restaurant work or need to learn more to switch careers). What do you like (in school, hobbies, etc.)?
You mentioned updating your resume, apps, etc. Great. Keep at it. Sometimes people close to us are the ones that help. Sometimes it's an acquaintance. Sometimes it's you.
Some companies hire skillsets. Some hire people. I say, your best bet is to hone on jobs leveraging your people skills.
I'm glad you're asking here and I hope we help. You can also ask that question on the internet and via ChatGPT. Answers may be helpful.
Good luck!
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