I've been interviewing with three different companies for a few months now.

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May 10,2023 at 9:33PM UTC

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I've been interviewing with three different companies for a few months now. During my interview with my top choice, I informed the hiring manager that I was also interviewing with two other companies. she requested that I keep her updated if I receive any other offers before hearing from her. Although she filled the original position with someone more experienced, there are still two or three other openings available. I reached out to her a week and a half ago and was told she would get back to me soon, but I haven't heard anything since. The last time we spoke, she mentioned that she received approval to realign territories and is considering how to fit me into one of them next quarter. Meanwhile, the hiring manager of my second choice will be offering me a position tonight. I'm contemplating whether or not to reach out to the first hiring manager since it's been a week and a half since we last spoke.

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Joan Williams, Senior Talent Acquisition SpecialistMay 10,2023 at 11:11PM UTC
I would definitely reach out to her.
AnonymousMay 11,2023 at 1:04AM UTC
She will think about it only if she thinks someone else wants you.
This is not a good sign. She doesn't value you for what you bring. She only wants to have the chance to consider someone else's top choice.
Joan Williams, Senior Talent Acquisition SpecialistMay 11,2023 at 5:44AM UTC
Maybe she got sick and was out for a few days. Maybe another project got moved up the priority list. Many things could have happened.
Sarah HulickMay 11,2023 at 1:48PM UTC
Reach out! Can’t hurt!
Mary PoolMay 12,2023 at 1:56PM UTC
Reach out, but ask yourself, “Which company will value me more?” We are in a time of layoffs; you might want to take a secure position where your skills will have more valuable. You are not just the second choice with this company; you are down on the list, as evidenced by your not being considered for the other openings. It doesn’t mean it isn’t the right choice; it just means to go in with your eyes wide open. Also, next quarter, when next quarter? Beginning? End? What if the realignment doesn't happen? How hard will it be to find another position?
Maggie StoneMay 16,2023 at 1:44PM UTC
I would keep her informed of other offers per her request and see what happens. However, since all you have is an expressed hope to find a place for you next quarter, I think you have a classic bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush scenario.
AnonymousMay 16,2023 at 2:27PM UTC
Won’t hurt to reach out, but why? You are clearly a candidate that has been shelved while they search for someone else. Get that other offer and be grateful another company sees your value and is willing to act on it.
AnonymousMay 16,2023 at 4:00PM UTC
Absolutely!