What is a good way to handle this.

What is a good way to handle this. I don’t want the company I am interviewing with to call my job unless I become finalist . My job doesn’t know that I am looking for another job. When I interviewed with the recruiter last week she asked for my supervisor information I gave it to her. Today I got notified that I was selected for second round of interview.

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  1. Joan Williams, Senior Talent Acquisition Specialist

    First, I would not have given that information to the recruiter.
    There would be no reason for any company to call your supervisor although I have seen it happen. People have been fired for exactly this. Not cool!

    Prospective employers can do an employment verification - which should only be done if they want to make you an offer - they call HR and can only ask when you were employed there, what your title was and if you're eligible for rehire. They are not supposed call your supervisor.

    And they can ask for references - those are people whose name and contact information you provide. Unless someone has an unusually good relationship with their current boss, it's typically not that person. Usually, former managers or supervisors and peers. Until they want to make you an offer, your references are none of anyone's business.

    I would call this recruiter immediately and tell her in no uncertain terms that they are not to contact your current supervisor UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES.

    I would also ask why they would want that information because I can't think of a good reason. Tell her to delete their name and number from her system ASAP.

    Please let me know if you have any questions. Good luck!

  2. Anonymous

    Joan! Thank you so much for explaining the process! I had my second interview yesterday and it went great. I can really see myself working there. The supervisor I interviewed with did not ask anything about my supervisor or references so I did not bring it up. I will keep you posted.

  3. Joan Williams, Senior Talent Acquisition Specialist

    That's great news!

    Typically things like Employment Verification are done by HR so your potential new supervisor typically wouldn't bring that up. I recommend not giving out that information in the future unless the company says they want to make you an offer.

    GOOD LUCK ON NEXT STEPS - let us know what happens.

  4. JJ

    Most companies will not call references unless you’re at the final stage.

  5. Anonymous

    JJ Thank you!

  6. Anonymous

    I agree with JJ, most companies don't waste their time and resources if they are not seriously going to make someone an offer.

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