At the end of the interview, your last question should be to always ask, "When should I expect to hear back from you?" This will take the pressure of not knowing off of you. Follow up with "How should I reach you if I need to?"
Once you get home, send your usual "Thank You" email for the interview, within 24 hours. BTW - The purpose of that email is not to say "Thank You." It's to reinforce your memory in the mind of the interviewers. "Thank You" is an excuse.
Next, immediately return to your job search trying to get a 2nd job offer. You always want to have two, if you can, so that you have negotiating leverage. At BJM we find that about a third of the time it's possible to have two, or more at once. You can't fake having another offer. If they call your bluff, you'll have to walk away from a valid job offer. It's not like you can tell them, "I was lying" and expect to get hired.
The biggest mistake we see from job seekers at BJM is that they tend to rest once they've had a great interview. Usually it's about four or five weeks of silence that they tolerate before they resume their job search. We teach that you should not stop your job search until you are sitting in their office, filling out your I-9 and W-4. Not before. (We've seen job offers withdrawn on the actual start date.)
So keep up your search. You're obviously doing things correctly, or you wouldn't have even gotten the interview, much less a good one!
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