Yup, been there, it is not good. I rode the elevator up to the office with a colleague from another department, who said, "Hey, my friend applied for that role on your team (HR)." I blanked, there were literally 4 members of our team, but bluffed and said, "oh great, tell her good luck." Went to my office, quickly looked at our internal postings site (that would have been too easy), looked at the team's shared mailbox (where applications are sent) and found applications for a role that had only been listed on one, very specific job site. I followed the link to the posting and read my exact job description plus a bunch of adult education/training responsibilities, my company was listed. I probably should have sat quietly and just prepared to go myself, but I didn't. The day after the team had a budget meeting for the next year's programming, directly outside my office door, that I'd prepped numbers for but was not invited to the meeting, I could not let her continue believing I was stupid. So I sent a message, with a link to the job posting, pointing out the responsibility overlap and asked if we needed to have a discussion, then I left for a week of vacation. The day I returned, I heard my role was being eliminated, they needed a training specialist, hoped I'd stay until they found someone, etc. I said 3 weeks, she asked for 6, and I agreed (but should have left at 3 weeks). I suffered the indignity of training the new person and introducing her around the small company too. I left everything wrapped up as neatly with a bow as I could (because I am me and no one is knocking me out of my integrity). Imagine my surprise when 3 months later, that person was fired. And a few months after that her replacement was fired. Then the director was fired. And the Board removed the top guy for embezzlement. Which is all to say, I was doing a great job, but the new boss had determined she needed skill & experience I didn't have (and was not interested in acquiring), and that was that. While I would have appreciated the professional courtesies of directness and not behaving so shadily (as an HR person working at a church), it was not to be. It stung, I won't hide that from you. You are not being paranoid. Move quietly to get ready to go, just in case, revamp the resume and LinkedIn, start looking at roles that appeal to you and applying. If the worst does not come to pass, so be it, but it's a heck of a lot better to be moving forward than being caught flat-footed and unprepared.
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