Sometimes we may need to create that job for ourselves in the interim and be open to opportunities that we may not have previously considered. You definitely know what you don't want which is always the starting point, I feel. (You have the advantage of clarity which will enable you to separate the wheat from the chaff).
For example, while I working at a local municipality, I was offered a contract to work with a non-profit. At the time, I knew I wanted creative work with flexibility, freedom, personal growth, independence, appreciation for my efforts, and the ability to learn new skills. I didn't know what that looked like at the time. Yet, something told me to take the opportunity even though non-profit was something that I just didn't have on my radar. It ended up being one of the top highlights of my life (not just career).
What may help is just to put the word out that you are open to consulting projects and see what happens. Also, be open to pitching a project if you see a need that you could fill. For example, I contacted a beauty company and asked them for more diversity in their marketing as I didn't know how their products would look on my skin tone. They appreciated the feedback and asked me to make an offer for a modeling contract. This satisfied my need for autonomy, creativity, learning new skills, growth, and being paid exceptionally well. Never would I have thought about modeling but the opportunity landed in my lap. Conversely, a financial executive approached me about a position at a credit union which although appreciated was an intuitive no for this hippy-dippy chick!
Those traits you listed that you have listed with regard to talents and passions, etc are in demand. Use those as a compass/magnet for what you desire. The fact that you enjoy caring for people is a huge plus and those opportunities may come up while in discussion. I cannot tell you how many times in casual conversation people will say, "We just can't find someone who would fit this role after so and so left because she really loved doing y task".
Lastly, always always always listen to your intuition. If it tells you to show up at an event (even though it doesn't make sense), listen to it! You never know what will unfold.
Good luck and many blessings.
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