Not saying you SHOULD lie, because everyone here saying not to is making valid points. Just want to add my experience for your consideration.
About 18 months ago, two jobs ago, I took the risk of lying about my salary. It started out as my telling the recruiter what I wanted to earn (a lot more than what I was making), and then through later conversations as part of the negotiation process, the recruiter started asking me details about what I was currently earning, and I felt pressured to lie in order to defend what I had already asked for. I first did my research to determine it would be illegal in that state for me to be asked to provide W2s to prove my current salary, and I purposely made it a little hard to verify as a mix of salary plus variable bonus components. It was stressful, but no one ever called me out at any point, and they offered me a fair premium on my trumped-up comp package.
Then when I went into negotiations for my next role, I was able to be fully truthful in how I represented my compensation and asked for a fair premium on that, and got it.
So in the end, my initial lie really helped me overcome a pay disparity and reset my market value to feel more competitive.
I would just make sure you do some research on the state you live in and the state the company is based in and even the state the recruiter is based in, and make sure you have a grip on the risks you might be taking and feel comfortable with it.
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