A Frustrating Interview Experience (long story)

This happened a little over a year ago, but it’s bothered me ever since. And I felt incredibly hurt and insecure after it happened. I went in to interview for an Office Administrator position. I have a background in customer service, I’m well versed in email and telephone etiquette, and I carry myself with respect and poise. When I went to the interview, I started out okay! It was with the current office administrator who would be moving to another position. She and I got on amazingly. We had a very similar idea about what our goals were, and spoke about what it was like to be 20 somethings in the current job market. This was the first part of the interview. The second part of the interview was with one of the higher ups. He was an older man, who claimed to be strict and fair. I thought okay, this is a financial firm. That’s to be expected. He looked over my resume and said that while he liked my experience, he asked for an interview because he wanted to see if I had more experience than I listed. I was confused. Because that’s....not a reason to call someone for an interview. You could call me and ask me for resume clarification. Maybe shoot me a message, so I don’t have to drag myself into the city, in the rain, for an hour. So...we talk, I put my best foot forward explaining my experience and how it could apply to the position. He essentially says “Mmm I was hoping you’d have a lot more experience, I like that you’re new because you’d have a fresh foundation to build on, but I feel like there may be other experienced people that may fit the role.” Then he says, “Don’t think that this is for any other reason than your resume. I don’t want you to take it the wrong way.” ???? If you were okay enough with my resume to call me in, only to say I’m under qualified when you see me face to face, how else am I supposed to take it? It hurt my feelings, because it felt like he was judging me and my capabilities entirely on what I look like. I took a huge hit on my confidence, and I felt embarrassed. Maybe I’m overreacting and missing something, maybe I’m jumping to conclusions. But it wasn’t lost on me that the young woman I spoke to said that she felt I would be good for her current position, while the older man said he felt I wasn’t qualified.