Frustrated and venting a bit.

Frustrated and venting a bit.

I just need to vent a bit about the job search. I have over 20 years of experience in the HR field and have been unemployed for over a year. I wanted to take time to decompress from my last job and am trying to get back in the field. I am so tired of applying and getting rejected. I don't apply for every job; I apply for the jobs that have a great mission and I believe I would find the most satisfaction. As time goes on I believe I want to just drop out altogether. Any advice would be welcomed.

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  1. Anonymous

    A year is a long time to be out of work even if you took some time to decompress. As a former recruiter and current job seeker, it's a very different market now than in the past which means approaching the job search differently. Are you only applying online? If yes, it's going to be really difficult to stand out among hundreds of applicants. I've found some great free resources out there to help with everything from getting clear on your personal value proposition (ie why an employer should hire you) to building your personal brand to writing compelling cover letters to effective networking to resume formatting that clearly show results (think numbers, percentages, dollars) to interviewing to negotiating an offer. (Pro tip: no one resource does all of it really well - especially for free - so I rely on several.) It seems like a lot but the more of these tactics I've incorporated in my job search, the more I'm engaging with recruiters and hiring managers about potential opportunities.

  2. Yvonne Evans

    I appreciate your thoughtful note. I did take time to focus on myself as I went from one job to another. I traveled to Scotland and got involved with volunteering for our veterans and taking Spanish. I have found some free resources on the PVP and revamping my cover letters to address these values when applying. Thank you again. Best, Yvonne

  3. Anonymous

    It's definitely frustrating. A lot of people fighting it out for the few jobs that are available. What are you doing while you are in the midst of your job search? What sort of self-care? Have you optimized your resume? LinkedIn all up to snuff? Do you have SHRM or PHR certifications? While you aren't working, what are you doing to stay up to date on things?

  4. Yvonne Evans

    I am volunteering to help people who are also struggling with finding work especially veterans. I enjoy working with them and also I am studying Spanish. I have revamped my resume and will start on my LI stuff. Getting certification at this point is too expensive for me. I am keeping up by taking courses that are free and also taking seminars with the EEOC. I am also a member of HR groups to keep me updated on changes in HR.

  5. Anonymous

    You might want to contact a recruiting agency. While Indeed and LinkedIn, etc. job boards are great for advertising positions, unless you have the precise language they have set for their boolean searches in your resume, you'll automatically be rejected. A recruiter can help avoid this. Good luck!!

  6. Yvonne Evans

    Thank you for your suggestion. I guess I outed myself by not posting anonymously however, it is so okay now. Thank you again. Yvonne

  7. Sonali Crouch

    Apply to every job. The job market unfortunately isn't conducive to being picky anymore. I needlessly made my job search long by being picky.

  8. Anonymous

    Have you thought of a business? 20 years is a long time, and you have a lot of experience? Could your skills be used in other sectors? Is there any retraining that would help?

  9. Yvonne Evans

    Thank you for your kind thoughts. Not sure but this may be an avenue worth exploring. Thanks again.

  10. Anonymous

    Yes, a common theme these days. The market is horrible. It seems that the more experienced talent are especially struggling. The market is just in the toilet for us.

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