Am I wrong to post personal opinions on a professional network?

Am I wrong to post personal opinions on a professional network?

I have over a decade of experience in the content writing field and have been a manager to several diverse and global teams. But I got tired of the industry and switched to the eLearning industry a couple of years back. Given that I am a professional with expertise in the previous industry, many newbies asked me for advice and tips, so I started using the professional LinkedIn network to write posts for newbies and managers alike with the hopes of helping them navigate uncharted territories and hopefully guide them to be the better version of themselves. While most of the time my posts are from my personal experiences, sometimes they are also influenced by the experiences of close friends. Some of my posts have been about negative experiences as well where I have covertly called out companies without naming or shaming anyone. My network is huge so my voice gets heard and also impacts people in a good way as some companies have changed their behavior after I called them out covertly.

Now since I am still kind of new in my current industry I refrain from posting about it as I don't consider myself an expert yet so all my posts are about my previous industry and experiences. A year back, I wrote a post about how some companies don't respect after-shift hours and it's wrong. I added that managers (I am a manager myself) are accountable for ensuring that teams are not forced to sit after hours to work. Someone sent a screenshot of this post to my CEO who called me up and was unhappy but wanted a clarification. I told them it was a generic post and at the end of it, I had mentioned how lucky I was to be working at my current industry and workplace where people respect each other's time even though we all work from different time zones. My manager told me to just add the company name at the end so it doesn't appear that I am making this company look bad. So I did that. I was curious as to who sent that screenshot though but they didn't tell me.

I have been working for 4+ years at my current workplace, where I am well loved by my bosses and peers a like. I have been told by my bosses and teams that I am easy to work with, respectful, have helped produce record breaking amount of projects efficiently and have been appreciated verbally by the management multiple times. I could not think of anyone who would want to show me in a bad light but I ignored it thinking that I should have mentioned the company name after all since I did say I was lucky to work where I work now. I never post negatively about people I work for or work with.

Six months down the lane, a friend had some terrible experience with a local company who, despite being a senior, was asked to write a piece for an assessment and then was not selected, only to learn that later that piece of assessment was used as a post by that business. This was wrongful practice and I myself have been at the receiving end of this a few times. Because I felt strongly about this, I wrote a very short and simple post stating how some local content companies in my country had this wrong practice and they should be mindful. Now mind you, the business I work for is neither local, or small but us an off-shore office of a company that resides in another country. I work for an eLearning firm and not a content writing firm at all and still someone sent the screenshot of my post to the management AGAIN. My manager took it lightly saying I had clearly stated the country and local market so it doesn't seem like a post about my current company at all but an hour later a seething CEO called me up and threatened to terminate me saying people at office looked up to me and my words mattered. The only reason he said he wasn't terminating me was because my manager put his neck on the line trying to convince him for over an hour that my post was not about them. But he wasn't convinced completely. I had to take that post down and apologize. He was not willing to listen to my explanation.

Since then I have not posted anything on my professional network. Not even educational stuff. I am scared to because I might get fired for an unintentional post. But it's been around a year since this fiasco and I think the management still holds a big time grudge against me as I get nominated but never receive awards, my manager pushed for me to get a promotion twice but was rejected both times on grounds that I could not be trusted to uphold a positive outlook for this company. I checked with HR after this as well but we have no social media policy apart from not posting publicly about company's internal projects. I am so demotivated right now. No one ever mentioned the positive posts I put up about this company before this whole fiasco. Even though I have a team and manager who loves me, I want to switch my job and leave. I can't believe that all it took were screenshots of 2 stupid posts for them to overlook my five years worth of positive contributions to this company. I am heartbroken.

Am I really wrong for posting anything about the market I previously used to work with in general? Do all my posts have to be positive stuff? Why can't I respectfully call out people from my previous industry on a professional network where my voice is heard and creates an impact? I love working in this new industry and I enjoy working with my team but in all my years of work experience, I have never faced such hatred from any management before over such stuff. It's badly impacted my mental health and has shaken my confidence.

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  1. Wendy P.

    yes. personal opinions have no place on a professional network. That's what Facebook and Instagram are for.

  2. Anonymous

    Post away about the market you previously worked for, claim the posts are about friends or former colleagues, or tag the company you're writing about...but understand that you'll be connected by default to your current employer! Despite all of your experience and expertise in your field, I'm a bit surprised by your naiveté in this instance.

    Its shocking to me that grown professionals don't understand there are consequences to behavior. You're so focused on right-fighting now and making your point that it's coming at your own detriment since you've been passed over for promotions and are clearly in the cross hairs of your CEO.

    You're not going anywhere at your current company. Your team and manager may love you but your CEO has been VERY clear that they don't trust you and you'll stagnate in your current position. I agree with you that I'd start looking for another job. Please reconsider publishing these types of posts on LinkedIn moving forward. Resist the urge, you're paying for it dearly from a professional perspective.

  3. Lisa Marie

    In today's world where image is everything, and cancel culture exisits, *everything you do and say* can be pushed up your employer's nose to get you fired.

    The way you said your company is behaving, they are controlling YOUR Freedom of Expression (FOE) - to protect THEIR image. *Plain and Simple*

    Is that a place where you want to remain? What's more important to you - your income or your FOE?

    Your post indicates your company is not US based. If their constitution doesn't include FOE, they definitely will not be sensitized to, or understand the gravity of the right.

    At this point, they don't like you, and your mental health is suffering (you said all that yourself), so why remain in an unhealthy and unfair environment? Why keep yourself in a soul-sucking situation?

    Find another job and get yourself out NOW - do not wait for them to terminate you, and stifle your voice in the process. **Be sure to not let anyone (not even an insect at that company) know that you are looking for another job!!

    Do not let them terminate you. It will have an even more devastating effect on your psyche even more that it is being affected now. Also, the job market for many career fields is terrible at the moment - so it is better to leave on your own terms, than be terminated.

  4. Anonymous

    Very well said. I'm always surprised when people post on public forums and don't expect backlash. It devastates them.

  5. Anonymous

    Unfortunately there is a huge difference between posting and speaking personally and doing the same professionally.

    It doesn't matter that you are well thought of at your company. There is a whole different set of unwritten rules you must navigate on the public stage. You've experienced the downside of hidden agendas and creating a voice for yourself in the professional arena on a public stage. Even a small stage.

    So, to answer your question, no its not wrong that you use that voice of experience to share for the greater good but please understand that that public voice never gets a free pass (even when you're convinced everyone loves you) The intent is to help but it's also can be viewed as a target by those that don't agree with you or simply don't like you. You are not very savvy if you thought there would not be some blowback.

    So you need to take a step back to weigh the reason you stepped up to share in the first place with the risk to you personally. It's public and when something is offered publicly you will take some hits. If you're not up for this game, your confidence will be shaken and you will be confused and left beaten down.

    You may need to grow a thicker skin and understand that as beloved and respected as you are in your company, not everyone agrees in a public forum. And they will use their voice. That's just life of an influencer in a very social media world. You need to accept that it's all part of being public.

  6. Anonymous

    Being an online influencer while working for a company will bring conflict. It depends on how you manage your wording and how you approach each post. Perhaps you can end with saying "thankfully in my current role/company, they've done xyz (positive actions)" to distance from the negative wording about other places of employment that need to improve. Or you need to separate your online presence from your professional life by making a new account and not including your current place of employment. At the end of the day, companies need to protect their bottom line and if the things you write affect any sales, recruitment,or general PR for them, you are a liability in their eyes, regardless of how important it is to speak your truth.

  7. Anonymous

    Please do some studying up on public posts. Know your audience and the purpose of each platform. No one is saying don't share but please understand there is a place for personal opinion. Don't confuse the personal and professional.

  8. Anonymous

    Be careful what you post on all social media. Once you hit "submit" you just lost control. You no longer control where it goes, who reads it and to whom it's shared or where it gets shared. Therefore, be very mindful of airing any grievances anywhere. However, you have a reason for doing it and perhaps you think you are helping people, but in fact, you are damaging your reputation and upsetting your current employer. Just brace yourself if they decide to let you go, no matter how well liked you are or perceived you are, we are all replaceable. If it becomes a risk for the company's reputation, they could let you go. Just because there is social media does not mean we need to air every single annoyance we endured in life. To be helpful to me is to be uplifting, offer advice within my field of expertise with hope that I shined a light to make someone's day. Which is why I like this site and more importantly we can all remain anonymous but still feel the power of helping people. I never bad mouth any current or previous job, employer, or industry. When you do, you are releasing negativity into the world and guess what, it will come back to you. Shine love and light, and get a therapist to talk about your issues to help you. Or if you are inclined, get a certification or further your education to become a counselor or life coach. If you are going to post, you are going to be a target. Expect negativity with responses. It's not all butterflies and roses out there. Take care of your mental health first and seek opportunities where you can productively help others outside of blasting negative comments online. Good luck to you!

  9. Anonymous

    Solving employment problems for everyone else by voicing a negative opinion does not make change. What purpose does it serve? You don't mention company names so why even write about it? Your CEO is on to you and you made a mistake. You are branding yourself as high risk. Keep a journal if you want to talk away and air your grievances that way. Writing is cathartic, we know, but it's not useful if it's going to tear you down. You are not going to make any change by getting yourself in deep water with your employer unless you don't mind using your voice to lose your job and security in life. The one thing that supports us all is our jobs. The main thing that can end it in one moment is our behavior. Dear reader, you are not saving the world by writing content to let others read that have had bad experiences. Go into the world to help uplift, not tear down. We all have negative experiences, we are all consumers. If I read any negative posts about companies or an assumption of companies on LinkedIn, I would block all content from you. No one cares about the bad stuff and no one cares that you want to be the voice of other's bad experiences. That's not your lot in life. If that is your life's purpose, please find a life coach to help you find what is meaningful and helpful to you and others in a more positive way.

  10. Anonymous

    Most relevant post on this thread!

  11. Anonymous

    I disagree. Social media is a proven tool to enact society wide discussions and policy change. It's often the origin point of major social movements, including workplace changes.

    Look at Salary TransparentStreet. She started 100% on tiktok and Instagram, became a huge sensation by allowing people to discuss their salaries and show how fair or unfairly they were being paid, and is now actively helping enact new policies that make it illegal for companies to list jobs without a salary range in various states.

    You telling the OP that "no one cares that you want to be the voice of others bad experiences", "that's not your lot in life" is both oddly pushy and giving similar vibes to people who get angry at women for speaking up about abusers on public platforms, instead of getting angry at the abuse itself and agreeing that we as a society need to do better. She's bringing to light things that need to change. That's is a positive.

  12. Anonymous

    "go into the world to uplift not to tear down" says the person tearing someone down on this post lol.

  13. Anonymous

    Keep your mouth shut. If its not helpful, its negative. Calling out anyone is counter productive, and paints you in a negative light.

  14. Anonymous

    Eh a lot of linkedin influencers call out unjust or abusive behaviors in the workplace as a social movement, to fight against the tendency for society to sweep bad phenomenon under the rug. It's important to speak on things that need to change, otherwise we keep things status quo. The main issue I see is that if she doesn't specifically say she's not describing her current company, followed by compliments of how well her current company is, and she still publicly lists past places of work, this causes a conflict and potential legal issues. It sounds like she can keep doing this good work, regardless of how 'negative' speaking about bad behaviors is, but she needs to take it to a different platform or create an alias without listing her places of employment.

  15. Anonymous

    Thank you everyone for your advice, suggestions and guidance. I really appreciate it. Yes, I understand I should have been more careful. I have been posting positively for years and just 2 of my posts which were not even related to this company (but yes, I admit they were calling out others) did get picked on. I intend to be more careful and only keep my posts strictly educational.

    Thank you all once again.

  16. Sanchizes chinazes

    This is such a relatable and frustrating situation. It's unfair that two screenshots can overshadow years of positive contributions. Personal opinions on professional networks should be allowed as long as they're respectful. When I'm not reading about work dilemmas, I like to take a break with https://slotexo.edu.gr A simple way to relax and clear my mind.

  17. Sanchizes chinazes

    This is a tough situation – sharing personal opinions on professional networks can be risky, even when you're careful. It's frustrating when management overlooks years of positive contributions because of a few posts. It sounds like you were trying to help others and speak up against unfair practices. Perhaps finding a new workplace where your voice is valued might be the best move. I recently visited https://dazard-bet.com.de/ and appreciated their clear, respectful approach to communication – a good example for any workplace.

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