Unfortunately I agree with you. I’m aging out soon, on the leadership side and can confirm there are frequently a handful of “adults” to lead the kids and that’s about it. How those relationships work depends on the specific company. I worked for one who was getting ready to IPO and everyone was awesome! But at the startup before that, the “kids” were disrespectful and gossiped a lot and I don’t care what they say specifically but it does become toxic when it’s constant and you have little support. What I lacked in that environment the most was peer support. You don’t realize how much you need it until you’re the only “adult” around to make big decisions and you have a bunch of kids pushing back.
I’m interviewing now and have come across so many roles where younger millennials/older GenZ have been promoted to VPs etc and they seem to have little interest in hiring someone with more experience than them, especially someone who is requiring a higher salary. They don’t care about how much your experience can impact the company if your experience is a threat to them. (Not saying this is every young manager but I’ve encountered this many times in prior roles now and especially interviewing in the past year).
I’m now considering other industries, as things aren’t going to get better as I age. It sucks because tech pays the best for me, but a smaller but livable salary in a place where you’re valued and respected is worth more than money.
Good luck!
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