I can never seem to be truly satisfied with a job in the past few years. My first long term job lasted for 19 years. I started when I was in my 20’s. The next company was 5 years, and since then I haven’t stayed anywhere more than 2 years. I’m getting itchy at my current job after only 1 year. It seems I am never satisfied, and the biggest reason is work-life balance. I didn’t care when I was younger, and now I do. I apply for positions that say they have this, but than it goes away. The thing is, I’m in my 50’s now, and I know it could be dangerous to job hop. Should I keep seeking the “one”, or just stick with my current job and hope it gets better?

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1. AnonymousJune 23,2024 at 4:57PM UTC

   I hear you. The answer may be worth unpacking.

   The past had different people, personalities, priorities, etc. The job market and employment workspaces have changed. You've changed. Fulfillment can come in a variety of places.

   If you need the money and benefits- and the job isn't horrible, stay in it for the time being. Either way, prioritize finding what fulfills you (either at the job or elsewhere whether it's through new hobbies, learning, travel, or a new career).

   Your company may have professional development tools and initiatives. Seek your Benefits package or speak to HR. I worked in HR and some companies offer assessments, give tuition reimbursement, have trainings on site. Those could help too.

   I recommend "Designing your life" and Designing your Work Life" by Burnett and Evans. Great books with worksheets to have you answer big questions to help steer you in the right direction. Career coaches can help too, but pick ones with credentials. Here is a link to help you consider (I didn't work with the author, but the tips are sound) : https://kathycaprino.com/2018/01/thinking-working-career-coach-heres-need-know/

   Find a way to reconnect with what makes you shine. It may be at a job. It may not. Find the balance. [Learn how to] Create the balance. You're entering your power.

   Good luck