Thank you so much; I appreciate the feedback.
The bummer here is that I did what due diligence I could about the company online as well as looking at their code of conduct policy online and asked what I thought were pretty good questions during the interview and yet.... my boss yells and intimidates and gaslights and is genuinely obstructive in trying to get work done - I left for my own well being and before doing so, I handed over several months worth of documentation with exhibits of what I was witness to. Before doing that, I tried having a very transparent 60+ minute conversation with my boss at my 5 month mark sharing my concerns for the team and the blowback we/her direct reports were getting from the business for our boss' actions, and she could care less - no accountability, no integrity, and no concern or interest in anything, not even team building for the remote team. I tried to "manage up" in a supportive way, offering what I have learned has helped other teams I've worked on over the course of the last 20 years in this industry.
I do imagine that HR and my boss' boss is aware that there is a consistent pattern of people quitting after they reach their 1-year mark - in the 7 months that I was there, attrition rate was 50%.
Had I known what I was walking into, I would have never signed the offer letter. I've faced a lot of challenges but I have never met a boss that is truly awful on multiple layers.
Can anyone suggest what kind of questions one would ask during the interview process that would help get at vetting a hostile work environment issue? I asked after why people left, what the boss' management style was like, what are the challenges that the team faces as well as its strengths, I looked at Glassdoor reviews, I looked up the boss' work history on LinkedIn (which really was a red flag that I ignored - she is 7 years out of college with a psych degree working at the executive level in legal contracts...nothing showing in her history that she has the background for that)... any other questions that would be good?
Thank you again!
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