I had posted about 10 days ago or so.

Vicky Davis

October 22,2021 at 12:40AM UTC

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I had posted about 10 days ago or so. I was finally sent the written job offer pending background check, which I agreed to and signed. My start date is supposed to be Nov 1. I have heard nothing about equipment being sent, and I had to ask what those requirements are. Had my internet provider out yesterday to accommodate the requirements. I am just fearful of the lack of communication. Have never had that lack in all my years. Should I be worried? Should I contact the trainer the manager or the HR person with my concerns?? Maybe I am a little OC?????

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KatOctober 22,2021 at 1:28AM UTC
You have a right to be worried. They are not communicating with you or giving you the support and feedback you need to get ready for your new job. Reach out to the person that is supposed to be your manager and express your concerns. If your new manager is dismissive of your concerns or doesn't address them to your satisfaction, you need to rethink that job offer. This might not be the right job or environment for you.
AnonymousOctober 22,2021 at 2:41AM UTC
I hope they paid for the enhanced internet!
AnonymousOctober 22,2021 at 6:21AM UTC
That's not a very warm welcome or profile on boarding. But many companies have developed poor habits during the past couple of years. The care and kindness for the new hire experience is really not there at many companies. It's a shame that the importance of that warm connection is just not considered important.
I would definitely reach out to see if you can't create some urgency or attention around your arrival. This is really not a nice welcome.
AnonymousOctober 23,2021 at 7:03PM UTC
This seems to be aabout the chasm between your expectations and theirs. You felt the check took too long but it came through. Now you feel the onboarding is taking too long but I would bet it'll come through. I am in no way saying you are wrong for being frustrated BUT i think you have to get over that ASAP b/c that is the new normal for you and every minute you hold onto seeing things YOUR way and not THEIRS the more miserable you will be. This is the company you've chosen. Get on board with it, see it as different but not bad/wrong and thrive!Only you can change; they will never do so.