I am so sorry. What is terrible is that when you are actually attempting to hire someone and they have been scammed so many times that they don't believe you. I can't tell you how many times I had potential employees call me a scammer and scream at me when I called them about a job we were hiring them for. :(
I have gotten a lot of those scammers as well. The email header's a/o address itself is always funny and they rarely want to talk - just chat.
They also typically dangle huge salaries in front of you like a carrot. It would be more effective if they asked what you were expecting and added to it or looked up the median income. They usually don't even know what I do. I get there are only 80 "me's" in the world, but if you are attempting to hire someone, wouldn't you read the job description prior to reaching out so you can ask about my professional certifications and experience? I haven't ever been contacted by one of the over thirty companies I have worked with and they have said, "Can you explain your job?" in an email, but these guys do.
The "best" I ever ran across told me she is deaf. No problems. My best friend from childhood and my husband are, so she said that she could only talk to me through a TTY, but we couldn't text which I thought was odd. She started making such crazy claims that the Operator began laughing at her. I asked the Operator to stop typing because this was my question for her, so I asked her if she thought it was a scam and she said it looked that way. I asked her to reconnect with me and gave her a half truth about why I was quitting in a couple of weeks.
This is the great part, then like an idiot, she sends me a fake cashier's check through USPS to be a Mystery Shopper at my bank. Why would you go someplace they know you? They don't. It usually takes up to five days for the cashier's checks to be denied once it is found fraudulent and then they come after me for the money?
She included specific instructions on what to say, how I would be reimbursed after I sent her MY money?!? Alas, I dig some digging and found out she can hear which made me a little angry and lives out of state which made me very happy. She had crossed stated lines and sent something through the mail instead of FedEx or UPS because I am smarter than her. I told them they didn't deliver where I am because it is too rural (I was in Dallas then). I conned the con and she took the bait because she was desperate for a score.
I turned her in to every alpha bet soup (e.g., FBI, FTC, Postmaster General) under the sun that she had broken a law or regulation under. Several months later, I received a "victim's letter" of some sort from the feds telling me she was incarcerated and everything she had been convicted of. I am supposed to get another one telling me when she is released which should be soon.
The irony of it all is that I am an expert in identity theft, but she almost got me. Once you think you are immune and no one will ever be able to fool you, you have placed yourself in more danger.
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