So yeah, this happens more often than it should and I'm not exactly sure why. It's a complete waste of time for both the hiring manager as well as the candidate. I usually try and get the salary range stuff sorted out in the initial screening call, because too often, if compensation isn't discussed until the final interview, then chances are I'm not going to be too happy with the outcome (and a lot of time will be wasted on both ends). But once in a great while someone will insist on selling me on the role and then discussing compensation - those are the roles I usually turn down.
In the end, the only real advice I can say is to be hyperaware of your worth (and stick to it). It took me way too long to figure that out. The worst thing you can do for your self-esteem is sell yourself short. If you were worth $160K before, there's no reason to settle for $125K. I see a lot of responses here saying $125K is "within the advertised range", but so is $160K... or $165K for that matter! If they have set the upper range to $171K, then you should be asking them what in their mind defines a candidate worth $171K as opposed to $125K. And I don't buy the argument that they "HAD to have a salary range because of state requirements." That may be true, but states don't set the salary ranges. This company did set their preferred range after all - it wasn't forced on them. They could have set the higher range to $125K if that was as high as they could go.
Whatever you do, don't just take the job at their proposed salary. You won't be happy and they eventually won't be happy either, because you'll immediately start looking for another role that pays you what you're worth.
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