I'm in my mid-40s and I've gotten really frustrated with the tech industry.

I'm in my mid-40s and I've gotten really frustrated with the tech industry. I've been a programmer and a software development manager, and being a woman in this field feels like death by a thousand cuts. I was laid off some time ago, then started a business which isn't paying the bills. Now I need paid employment and I'm struggling to decide how to proceed, because I'm not excited about the obvious options (programmer or manager of same).

Anyone else feeling mid-career boredom and frustration? If so, did you find a solution?

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  1. Patricia

    I can relate, I have been in IT Project Management for 17 years. Prior to this I have 15 years of developer/support experience.

    Even though I have been studying additional IT courses over the years, including a post-graduate degree in Data Science, all I have to show for it is a tax bill I am still paying! I have been trying to pivot into Data Analytics, but a degree and transferrable skills are not enough.

    I am now looking at Project/PMO Analyst roles as a stepping stone. I thought if I could marry the skills and get some related experience I may be able to pivot in the future through networking.

    Like you, I am not excited about the obvious option of IT Project Management, but it's all I am being offered at the moment. Doesn't stop me looking for analyst opportunities...

  2. Carey A

    That's funny because I'm also thinking about moving into data analytics or data science! Hmm, I don't have a degree or certificate in it. Are they not asking you to interview, or are they interviewing you but ultimately choosing someone else?

  3. Patricia

    No interviews, they want years of experience on specific platforms and specific programs. I think networking is the only way in. Once I land the Project/PMO Analyst role, I can prove my skills and possibly pivot into Data Analytics.

  4. Kimberly

    Hello,

    Are you still seeking employment. I believe League Inc. is hiring for female engineers. You may want to check them out.

  5. Carey A

    Thanks, I will check them out. :)

  6. Anonymous

    How would you feel about working in Education? IT department for a school system or college/university? The pay might not be as competitive, but it's decent. Also, there is a focus on gender equality in a lot of the universities. Might even be able to teach if you wanted.

  7. Anonymous

    I went through this very issue back in 2003 when the tech market crashed. I did a complete career pivot but was lucky enough to have a house with equity and almost a year's severance due to 22 years with the company. I went back to school, got a master's degree in another discipline that I felt was more of a career calling for me, and never looked back. Since then, I have gotten a second master's degree and am almost finished with a doctorate. You're never too old to learn something new.

    One thing to note about what I did. It was not for the faint of heart because the salaries in my pivot career are not even close to the earning potential I had in the tech industry, so tightening the belt and figuring out exactly what you need to

    First: survive

    Second: get by

    Third: thrive

    is an essential element. At one point, I almost had to declare bankruptcy because of the significant credit card debt I had accumulated when I had the money to do it.

  8. Huong Nguyen-Valle

    hi! I am 42 and did a career pivot this year. I was in the non-profit sector my entire career and I had enough due to a number of reasons. I switched to the fitness tech sector and really love it! I went back to school to get my master's at 40 and graduating in June 2023. It is never too late and you can do it!

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