I'd really like to ask for a promotion in a way that doesn't make my paranoid boss think I'm about to resign.

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February 16,2022 at 9:44PM UTC

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I'd really like to ask for a promotion in a way that doesn't make my paranoid boss think I'm about to resign. Or that I'll be less committed.

Any suggestions for how to accomplish this? To be clear, I am not planning on leaving if I don't get it. I just learned I should always ask just in case...

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Barb HansenFebruary 17,2022 at 2:32AM UTC
I would say just that,
"I really enjoy working at Company X and having you as my manager. I'd like to schedule some time with you to talk about promotion options for me. (You can insert a few reasons why you want a promotion). I'd like to mention that I'm not looking to leave, I just that know that I can accomplish more and I'm excited to grow in my career here at Company X"
Mary Kate (O'Leary) CroghanFebruary 18,2022 at 2:51PM UTC
Agreed with Barb! Explain the reason why you are asking (feel like you can take on more responsibilities, want to take steps to a long-term career goal, etc.) within this company that you want to stay in. Don't hesitate asking for a something you want because your boss may react in a certain way.
Crystal HowellFebruary 21,2022 at 1:43PM UTC
I was in this position,first in last out. I honed my skills, and felt ready to ask for the next job level.
I was looked over, so I promoted myself and left. The same job, my skillset was increased before I left,and ended up higher salary,commission and bonus! Don't stay somewhere there is no growth!