Does it ever freak you out when the boss asks to see you? It causes me so much anxiety.

6 Comments

1. AnonymousFebruary 21,2025 at 3:57PM UTC

   You can always say of course, is there an agenda so I can come prepared? Or something along those lines.

2. AnonymousFebruary 21,2025 at 5:44PM UTC

   These days? No, but I have a great relationship with my current director. In the past, yeah...it would cause a lot of anxiety.

3. AnonymousFebruary 21,2025 at 7:13PM UTC

   Back in November I was in the office everyday over something so little and not even needed to be discussed in the office with the door close

4. AnonymousFebruary 21,2025 at 7:45PM UTC

   Of course, especially if you do not visit their office often. I've been asked to meet, no agenda, no need to bring my laptop or notepad. It ended up being an information sharing meeting. It was a weird meeting, one of the weirdest I've ever been in but there was no trouble involved, it was just getting information for the new manager who had no clue how she needed to support. I had been out for a family member's death and they were concerned they needed to help in my absence. It all turned out just fine and I bet your meeting will too.

5. JesFebruary 22,2025 at 5:48PM UTC

   Yes absolutely. I think that's really common. Has anyone yet suggested that you diplomatically ask if there's anything you should prepare in advance of the meeting? That might give you a clue as to the topic; I also think it makes you look like a team player who is not scared or expecting the worst (even if you are). Good luk.

6. AnonymousFebruary 24,2025 at 7:50AM UTC

   Most bosses have received management training and have been told that it's courteous to give employees a hint of the nature of the meeting. But unfortunately some of them either forget to do that or couldn't care. It's your choice to either initiate an inquiry as to what the topic is, or to ask if they can give you a hint before future meetings, or to say nothing. It's your call.