How do you stay in touch with colleagues you don't work with anymore?

Anonymous

March 14,2022 at 7:12PM UTC

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How do you stay in touch with colleagues you don't work with anymore? I have coworkers from a previous job that I group text with when any major life updates happen. And another group of coworkers from the same job (different time period) that we always talk about catching up and it never comes to fruition.

How have you found to be the best way to stay in touch with coworkers you aren't working with anymore?

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AnonymousMarch 14,2022 at 11:56PM UTC
Being proactive with those I truly want to connect with. I plan get together like happy hours at a favorite place. Coffee at a centrally located Cafe, tickets to a play, fair or music event. I make sure to give my friends a choice, dates, times etc.
If these friends are not important or live miles away, then a virtual happy hour is fine.
AnonymousMarch 15,2022 at 12:28AM UTC
Schedule time to catch-up. Some relationships naturally fade out and that’ll be okay, but I found that asking if the old colleague is free for a 20 min zoom or phone catch-up usually helps!
AnonymousMarch 15,2022 at 2:23AM UTC
I think the group texting is great. To make actual plans to meet up may have to come from you or a few others that are best are planning things. Setting a time and date and seeing who shows too maybe?
J LolaMarch 15,2022 at 7:32AM UTC
I usually ask them how they are doing or share an article or story that reminded me to check in. I tell them how things are going and that it was good talking. I'll try to keep tabs on what they are doing so I can ask about it later and follow up whenever seems natural...if friendship is worth the effort!
I have been really great friends with some of my coworkers and we've shared the same circle of friends. It's easier to bond over a common hobby like boardgames or books or enjoying a glass of wine. I always liked talking to others in my profession because they really understand what I do day in and day out, so it's a relief to finally hear from someone who gets it when everyone else is confused about the punchline of my jokes :P !