Ooh, this happened to me once. I got an in-person interview, and I showed up a few min early, in my nice black suit and blue button down. Someone else arrived right after me, but I didn’t think anything of it, since I had noticed there were a few roles open at this company. She looked a little frazzled, and her suit was mismatched (the suit details are for later in the story).
The receptionist frantically waved me over and whispered “you’re Mary Smith, right??”
I told him yes, and he goes “oh, no. Okay. She’s also Mary…but Mary Jones. I think they made a mistake. You’re supposed to be here.” I was like well…that’s not any of my business, and did the interviews and went home. It went well.
A few days later, I got the call from he recruiter that I wasn’t moving forward in the process. I asked for feedback, and the ONLY THING the recruiter said to me was that I didn’t look put together enough and I needed to get a new suit.
i said, “are you sure you’re rejecting the right Mary? Because I wore a matching suit.”
He said: “that was uncalled for.” And he HUNG UP ON ME.
I still think about poor other Mary! Does she have my job? If she does, do they know it?
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