If you don't like this career path, definitely look at others. That being said, maybe look at options you have that are different fields that branch from engineering.
Med school is starting all over again with a 10-12 year path until you have a real chance to earn and just enjoy life while earning. You will also likely build a massive amount of debt on your way to finishing all the levels of education and have a very difficult and time consuming job in medicine waiting at the end of it. I am guessing you are relatively young and enjoyed school and learning but after school, the hard work of adulting starts.
Look at your life outside of your career and education.
What do you want that isn't just about school and work.
I know this is a career focused site, but we need to live actual lives as well. Life cannot be all about work, or you're going to find that at the end of all this medical training, there's still something else missing that you're looking for.
Obviously you're a very driven person because engineering is a tough field to earn a degree for. Kudos to you for that accomplishment in itself. What have you looked at that could incorporate your engineering knowledge but not just be about making sure a structure will stand? If you like working with people and, unlike most engineers, have an actual personality, might I suggest becoming a sales engineer?
I know, I know, "ick, sales". Hear me out. These jobs are in high demand in multiple fields of engineering and since they are very technical, typically it's less about having to push to close a sale than bridging the gap between the actual marketing & sales team of a company (who do all of the actual prospecting and initial pitching) and the people in a plant/facility with their feet on the ground who need to know if the product/service being pitched is going to integrate well with their existing systems while improving efficiency. You could probably even find one of these jobs in a more medical field if you wanted to.
Sales engineers typically earn a very high income and if you wanted to could probably find something that involved travel as well. See the world while working, so to speak. The possibilities are limitless and you are likely to find that human emotional component you're looking for. You would also have time for friends, family, LIVING.
Please also think about the current topic of the day, AI. AI may very well begin to take away roles in both engineering AND medicine. But you cannot so easily replace the human component. Sales or people skills could help you avoid hitting an AI dust heap.
As a woman in a family of engineers, I can also say that your work environment may not be as toxic as you feel like it is. Engineering (especially civil) is very male dominated and these are typically also guys with the absolute least amount of emotional intelligence. Yes, they're good guys but they aren't very outgoing and like to stick to a certain path. You are trying to talk in colors to a group people who think in a very black and white way.
Not trying to discourage you if you're really dying to be a doctor, but there are paths that don't involve starting all over again.
Best of luck whatever you decide.
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