First of all, job hunting is so frustrating, I am sending you good vibes! I do have a couple of thoughts:
1) It seems like you are doing a ton of great stuff around your resume, so let's look beyond that. Someone suggested doing a post on LinkedIn -- that kind of thing is brilliant. Where can you showcase your expertise? Is there a professional organization in your field (likely the answer is yes)? Do they have a newsletter or meetings? Can you write an article for them, which you can then also post on LinkedIn? Can you teach a webinar for them and let your social media know that you're doing that, maybe following it up with a short piece on LinkedIn or Substack? How can you share a little bit of your expertise with a large number of people in a professional manner? Doing it through the auspices of a professional org can give it a little extra oomph, but just posting useful information is great, too. Stay away from FB or Twitter for this -- you want it to go out to people who are outside of your immediate circle of friends, and obviously you want space to be thoughtful.
2) What if you applied to positions that you think are a little out of your reach? What's the harm? You're already not getting ones you think you are qualified for -- it may be some people see you as overqualified, even if you don't see yourself that way. Why not give bigger positions a whirl? The worst that happens is, you don't get them either. But you might end up pleasantly surprised. Or meeting people you want to work with, and who want to work with you, when another position opens up.
3) After a "no," how are you following up? Many, many positions end up vacant again 6 months later, but employers don't necessarily go back to the candidates they turned down, not because they weren't also qualified, but because there's a hiccup there -- maybe they feel embarrassed or that the person was upset... I'm not saying you'll definitely get an offer if you send a nice thank-you that lets them know you'd still love to work with them someday and you hope the right opportunity comes by, but it might make you memorable enough in a good way, a way that smooths the path for them to come back to you later.
4) Finally, how can you create support for yourself and others as you go through this? Having a group of, say, 8-12 people who are all trying to make something happen in their lives (not necessarily getting a new job, but maybe building a business or creating some project, something they need accountability and support for) can be invaluable. Feedback, tips, ideas, accountability, handholding, and helping each other with introductions and expertise. The best way would be to find three friends to start a core group and then have each of them bring two other people into the group -- that way nobody knows everybody and there's fresh blood and fresh ideas.
These are really next-level tips, and you don't have to take all (or any) of them, but if you're looking for a new approach, some of these might help. Good luck! We're all rooting for you.
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