I have two interviews one for the end of the week and the other, not until the following; I'm trying to push forward with random applications but I'm so vested in those later-round positions it's difficult.

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February 27,2023 at 5:48PM UTC

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I have two interviews one for the end of the week and the other, not until the following; I'm trying to push forward with random applications but I'm so vested in those later-round positions it's difficult. I've learned that you can't stop sending out applications until receiving an offer but how can I motivate myself to keep trying when there's not anything listed that captures my interest? After searching for so many months, I'm fatigued even to start the long-process again!

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Lesa Edwards, Career Coach & Master Resume WriterFebruary 27,2023 at 5:55PM UTC
This is in your brain - which is the best news ever because you can 100% change what you are thinking.
Motivation ALWAYS starts with what you are thinking - not what you are doing. Reach back in to capture what you were thinking when you applied for the two positions you are interested in and practice those thoughts. When the "I'm not interested in anything" or "I'm fatigued even to start" thoughts rear their ugly (but well-meaning) heads, thank them for their concern and keep thinking the thoughts that got you to where you are with the two companies.
AnonymousFebruary 27,2023 at 11:39PM UTC
Thank you, Lesa. That's a good way to think about things. I appreciate the mental reset as it was needed!
Lesa Edwards, Career Coach & Master Resume WriterMarch 2,2023 at 6:41PM UTC
You are most welcome!
AnonymousFebruary 27,2023 at 6:02PM UTC
If you're not interested in positions you're interviewing for STOP NOW! In today's job search it's best, and more productive to find what you enjoy doing, your passion so to speak. Research the companies you'd like to work for, or get more info on them. Start following them on LinkedIn. Comment on their posts. Connect with a few people in the company, paying close attention to the information in their profiles. Never reach out to someone without reading their FULL profile first to draw some similarities to address in your connection message. You're wasting the time of the employers and other candidates, and your self by continuing to generally apply to anything and then waiting for something better to come along. If nothing is capturing your interest, do what you can to find out what you're interested in and go that route. Good Luck.
AnonymousFebruary 27,2023 at 11:39PM UTC
Hi Carrie,
It's a double-edge sword as I can't rest on being offered one of the two positions and need to keep pushing forward with others in case they don't work out. That being said, I'm not seeing a lot of positions right now that are applicable for my background. With how fickle the job market is right now, I need to have options in after not working for months.
Barbara McKeeFebruary 28,2023 at 7:03PM UTC
This reminded me of dating--do I stop dating other people because I really like that ONE GUY that I really like, or do I stay and wait for that ONE GUY?
I'm a wait for ONE GUY kinda gal, myself. :) But I did always keep looking, I just didn't pursue a lot of other opportunities until I knew if something was going to manifest. Never hurts to send a resume. Keep us posted!!!
Julie A. LaryFebruary 28,2023 at 8:09PM UTC
I'm in the same situation. On pins-and-needles, and unable to focus on new possibilities, knowing I'm close to securing a position. Yesterday, a contracting agency extended me an offer, but it's contingent on whether their client hires me.
I'm giving myself permission to spend a relaxing day, not looking for jobs, and not applying. I think it's healthy to give yourself permission to do something enjoyable for a day or two a week, and then go back to the "grind" of finding a job.
I also find it helpful to simultaneously work on fun projects. Throughout the day, I paint (on rocks) or work on a detailed Lego-like kit. Spending just 5 to 10 minutes painting a few strokes or putting together some pieces is enough "refreshment" to motivate me to apply for just one more job.
Give yourself permission to take a "breather." And good luck on landing the job.
AnonymousMarch 1,2023 at 1:28PM UTC
Suggest allocating a block of time to new applications and conversations daily (ie 9-11) and outside rhat stop and break. Otherwise rhe continual cycle will wear you down.
Janice McQueen-WardMarch 1,2023 at 5:04PM UTC
Agreed! I dedicate about 2-4 hours per day sending out resumes and researching. I spend the rest of my day reading and working on my health and well being. Searching for the dream job can be draining, but do things you love. I hike, walk, sing, and write, as it fuels me to continue the search. It will come, when it is the best option for you. What is for you won't pass you. Breathe and take time for you to recharge.