I haven't encountered this before, so my advice is just what I would do if I were in your shoes.
I'd include the job since it might help if hiring managers know you've already reentered the workforce. They might have an unfair (possibly subconscious) worry that you will decide you prefer being a SAHM or realize that working isn't feasible/the best decision for your family. I'm not at all saying that is appropriate, this is just my reasoning as an applicant.
I also think you should list the job since it seems inevitable that the current role will come up organically in discussion, and not including it could suggest a lack of transparency.
Plus, I think you should reframe how you're thinking about your current role. You seem to be assigning a lot of fault to yourself for the role not working out (even saying that you learned from your "mistake"). Jobs/companies turn out to be a poor fit all of the time. Don't beat yourself up about it.
Actually, be really proud of yourself for the fact that you've not just transitioned back to working life, but you've adapted to being a working mom for the first time. Any of us that have had kids and gone back, whether it's when they're babies, in school, or grown, know that this is not easy.
So try to give yourself some grace and begin thinking of how this current role showed you that you are looking for X, Y, and Z. It's about running towards something , rather than running away from something else. This will make discussions with potential employers so much easier. It's understood that when someone is looking for a role to XYZ, it isn't available at the current company.
Good luck, and remember to give yourself the credit, and grace, that you deserve.
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