Hello, I have had to change jobs more than I would have liked in the past three years.

Hello, I have had to change jobs more than I would have liked in the past three years. Back in 2019, the company I worked for was sold. I knew that the new company would eliminate my roll, so proactively I found a new job. The manager that hired me was wonderful, however, when I started she had quit due to her upper management. So my new boss in HR was an RN (which had no HR experience). I stuck it out for almost 2 years. It was a very stressful environment. In 2021, I took another job, that was a higher level. Then I was sexually harassed by the CEO, along with several others on the team. I resigned in December 2021 for another position but I don't love it - but I can't get anyone to look at me as they look at me as someone that will not stay long term. I am looking for my forever home - Any advise?

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  1. Anonymous

    I leave positions every 2 to 5 years...averaging 3 years per position unless promoted out of a role.

    My career has prospered greatly due to this strategy compared to my peers. People who have hired me have confided in me that I am viewed as highly valued with cutting edge skills.

    Anymore, if you remain in a role more than 5 years you are not considered fresh, in demand or currently valuable. My latest hiring manager said that she views greater than 4 years in a role as someone she wonders why? Doesn't that person have anymore value.

  2. Jennifer Smilnak

    Thank you!

  3. Anonymous

    Such interesting feedback from your latest hiring manager. Would you be comfortable sharing which industry they are in? I totally agree with your strategy and advice - but my background is media and nonprofits. I’m curious if your hiring manager was speaking on behalf of a different sector.

  4. Anonymous

    Entertainment.

  5. Anonymous

    Thanks!

  6. Julie Humbird

    I had similar changes 2019-2022. I only applied to the best companies to work for in my field. Companies that were continuously referenced for positive culture and benefits. No one ever asked me why I was trying to work there. Everyone wants to work there.

  7. Jennifer Smilnak

    Thank you

  8. Crystal Howell

    Well, you could say the company sold in 2019, you were on the next job 2 years. In the latter part of 2021 Career Break was taken, until I could find my dream job.

  9. Jennifer Smilnak

    Thank you

  10. Anonymous

    If u left a company bc it sold, I would put went out of business to make it very clear that was out if your control.
    So now it looks more like you only voluntarily changed 2 jobs in 2 years. No that is not a big deal, because in life shit happens. For ex if you have 3-5yrs experience in an area you applied for and still have those short term switches the employer is more concerned about your overall experience and your ability to proficiently perform those skills.

    what you should focus more on is aggressively applying for the type of job you do want. Write down your short term and long term goals and apply for jobs aligned with things you like or love to do.

    make sure your resume and cover letter matches and show direct linkages to critical key words in the job duties so you make it past the software that weeds people out before a hiring mgr even sees your package. Provide plenty of examples of how you saved the day or caused positive shifts at your job.

    interview your job environment. Write a list of interview questions to ask the interview panel. But do so in a covert way, ask questions that will give insight to the day to day activities. To get a better sense of the environment ask you can do a walk around and have a sit down with a current employee and pick their brain about their day to day activities. Not only will it show how interested you are in the position, you can pay attention to their verbal and nonverbal cues to get a sense if they are happy, stressed, ambivalent, scared in their current state, as you walk around the office examine this.

    as far as sexual harrassment I just want to tell you I am so sorry and I’ve been there and it sucks even more when the jackhole is in leadership. I’ve gotten to a point where a male coworker asks me out to lunch or tries to approach me when no one else is around there’s that lingering question….is he a predator and that thought never leaves you. So I truly empathize and hope you realize there are good people out there who are still genuine and great to work with. Good luck, don’t give up

  11. Jennifer Smilnak

    Thank you

  12. Ayian

    I put on my resume before the job title and duration why I left the position.
    "Company culture was not a fit" is perfectly fine for why you did not stay. This helps recruiters and HR understand my circumstances without having to wait for an interview to explain the short tenures.

  13. Jennifer Smilnak

    Thank you.

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