Hi Anonymous --- Thank you for posting this.
And let me say I don't know what you should say in the current situation, but I think the advice you've gotten to re-negotiate from Crystal, Joan, and Anonymous is the way to go.
But in the future, know what you want and what you will accept BEFORE talking to recruiters or anyone else.
Apparently you told this recruiter you wanted X, but then, when you discovered/remembered that the job was paying Y, you wanted Y.
TOO LATE!
If you said X, and your skills, experience, or knowledge have not changed, why exactly do you deserve Y?
That's like me going into a store and asking a clerk what the price of a gourmet cookie is, the clerk saying $7, me asking if the clerk can make change for a ten-dollar bill, and the clerk responding with, "Actually, the price is $10."
That wouldn't seem fair to you, would it?
In the future, I think a much better answer to a recruiter, HR specialist, or hiring manager asking what you're looking for would be something like, "Actually, I'm looking to be appropriately compensated for the value I bring to this position. What is the range for this role?"
Then you can decide to proceed or not.
And if the person refuses to disclose the range or exact pay (there is almost always (99.999% of the time) a range or exact amount), that would probably be a good time to thank the person for their time, ask to be remembered the next time, and say goodbye.
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