I started a new job 4 months ago and I'm already very bored with it.

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April 19,2023 at 2:21PM UTC

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I started a new job 4 months ago and I'm already very bored with it. My last two jobs were pretty demanding and high stress, but I enjoyed the variety of the work and high level of responsibility I had. In this new job, I barely have enough to keep me busy and my boss reviews or participates with me on every project (I'm 12 years into my profession, so I'm NOT used to my boss reviewing my work at this point in my career). I'm not sure what to do - I'm having a hard time just letting it ride and being ok with not being stressed/with being bored. I'm thinking of either going back to my previous job (who said they'd be happy to take me back when I left) or applying to new positions. Any thoughts appreciated........

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Sue Gordon- retired Career CoachApril 19,2023 at 8:13PM UTC
I can't advise on whether to go back or to apply to new positions, (why did you leave the old one? I presume those reasons would still apply). In either case if you're not happy 4 months in, it's very unlikely to get better. Nothing wrong with checking out what else is out there and moving on. Can you apply and keep your old job in your back pocket in case nothing better emerges? Is that job with its stress better than this job wih your micromanaging boss and boredom?
AnonymousApril 20,2023 at 5:42AM UTC
Posting in solidarity as I am in a similar situation. I have been thinking about resigning once/week from a job I started a few months ago. It seemed like such a great situation but it is more chaotic than I imagined. I was not exactly happy in my last role, but I had authority and my decisions weren't continually being second-guessed. I am wondering if it is partly the industry that is the problem, so I'm thinking of letting my boss micromanage and back-channel to their heart's content and using my time to learn some new skills that could lead me to something else, maybe even a new field.
AnonymousApril 21,2023 at 12:01AM UTC
Yes, I’ve been thinking of spending my time the same way
MislynApril 21,2023 at 3:47AM UTC
If you loved your old job and they are willing to take you back I would consider that. Why did you leave the other job? That could be your answer. Finding a job you love is not easy. Do a pros and con list and follow what you heart tells you.
AnonymousApril 21,2023 at 5:24PM UTC
I am in your exact situation. I’m continuously applying and interviewing for other positions…you never know what opportunity is out there!!!
Rosa E HearnApril 22,2023 at 1:20PM UTC
When we hire, we hold back on the duties so not to overwhelm the person. The person DOES get bored and feels frustrated but it's to ensure they have it down because when the flood gates open, it's a lot. Do you think it might be similar? I would tell them you are ready for more.
Vivian HwaApril 24,2023 at 4:22PM UTC
Did you try a conversation with the boss like, I want to be your go-to. What is it that you do, that you wish you could offload or get out of the way faster, or have prepped and half started? And how do you like it, show me a prototype or finished version or draft. The Alfred to their Batman, Coach Beard to Ted Lasso, Emily and Andrea to Amanda Priestly, whatever example resonates. You aren't saying they can't do their job well, but how you can be their lifesaver and use your skills and expertise to make them shine and in turn, earn their trust and prove your value.