Failing is inevitable and a very normal part of anyone's career.

Failing is inevitable and a very normal part of anyone's career.

It's unrealistic to think you'll never fail. It's a fantasy that we all buy in to.

You will fail, you will fail, you will fail. Repeat after me.

Have you failed? Maybe you:

? Received unfavorable feedback from a supervisor or colleague

? Got let go from a job or company

? Navigated the job search longer than expected and getting rejection after rejection

If we can normalize failure maybe, just maybe, it will be easier to move from with purpose.

In fact, maybe we can celebrate failure like designers do. When designers build prototypes of products and then test it in the market place they want to fail so that they can learn from it to then build a better product.

Meaning:

? When you get unfavorable feedback, what if it actually really is the data you need to be more effective in your job?

? When you're let go from a job, it's the change you actually needed so you can find something better?

⛰️ When you're in a job search for much longer than you anticipated and getting rejections left and right, you realize this is a moment to push yourself to persevere and keep going, even when you don't want to. THIS builds your agency and shows you that you can actually overcome anything.

These are gifts that are underneath the pain, annoyance, and frustration of failure, they are the underbelly.

You can either ignore these gifts and keep focusing on the pain (which will get you nowhere), or you can embrace these gifts and fail forward, just like designers do.

What had been your biggest career failure?

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  1. Anonymous

    I love this post. A lot of the times career failures really is out of one's control. Corporate America has unfavorable working conditions and expect a lot out of their employees. We are one of the few developed countries that does not have good employment laws protecting employees from having a bad work-life balance. This ties into my biggest career failure - I've gotten unfavorable feedback and put on PIP because I started demanding work-life balance (typical 8am to 6pm hours) and refused to work 6am to 2am any longer. I started to look for industries that promote work-life balance. I went from being a corporate employe to a teacher. Now, I know a lot of teachers say they work a lot of overtime. This is because they don't know how to manage their time. I was able to transfer skills from corporate world and am able to leave at 3pm on time daily.

  2. Claire McCabe

    This is amazing advice, thank you! I have written on here about my biggest massive career face-plant. But under Anon :-)

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