I’ve recently went back to an employer.

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September 25,2021 at 1:07PM UTC

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I’ve recently went back to an employer. Sounds like the ultimate “don’t” but I did so in order to get back into my beloved bridal industry, kind of like a stepping stone. However, two months into the job I now realize the role is not exactly what the business owner and I discussed in depth before I accepted the position. Two months in I have discovered an opportunity that I will be better suited for, still in the industry yet more aligned with my previous experience in sales etc. However, my current employer knows the company owner who posted the new exciting job opportunity. Should I not move forward with applying to this job? Of course I’d prefer that my reaching out be kept confidential but I am not sure this won’t back fire on me. Need advice!

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Rachel RaquelSeptember 25,2021 at 2:27PM UTC
How many conversations have you had so far surrounding the misalignment and the conversation not matching the actual job duties?
FGB userSeptember 25,2021 at 4:15PM UTC
Can it be solved and apply anyway if not?
AnonymousSeptember 26,2021 at 3:32PM UTC
Is there anyway to keep your employer off your resume? If not, can you ask that they respect your confidentiality and not mention your job search to your employer? Maybe offer references from other leaders in your industry that can vouch for your work history and ethic?
AlexisSeptember 30,2021 at 5:34PM UTC
While it can be beneficial to explore another opportunity it is also worthwhile to consider having a conversation your current manager about your role and how what expectations were previously discussed "in depth" and how they aren't matching your current responsibilities and role within the company. Try setting up weekly or biweekly 1-1 meetings with your manager.