A Tale of Two Jobs, one in a notoriously low-paying industry and the other, a potential 30K additional salary.

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March 23,2023 at 8:47PM UTC

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A Tale of Two Jobs, one in a notoriously low-paying industry and the other, a potential 30K additional salary. When I started interview for the first job, although I love the industry, I would prefer a higher salary due to cost of living in NYC.

I started interviewing for the second job mid job process for the first company due to the extensive interview period. Both jobs I would enjoy for differing reasons but I'm unsure of what to do if I receive the offers.

While this would be a great problem to have, both companies alluded that I would receive an offer by the end of the month. After over a year of searching part of me just wants a job. That being said, I'm worried that I'll settle for the first offer as I need a paycheck. While a position is under a 100K with a high title in an industry I always loved, the other is more substantial but runs the risk of instability due to the economy.

Finally the first job stated the salary in the job description. Is there any room for negotiation as I already 'agreed' to the higher end during the HR interview. I'd appreciate your advice! I'm trying not to get ahead of myself but it's an exciting to feel hope again!

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AnonymousMarch 24,2023 at 12:40PM UTC
Excellent problem to have, but the decision is yours. I know that money isn't everything, but it IS a BIG thing, and 30K is nothing to sneeze at. To evaluate which would be better, consider an industry you love and could stay and thrive in for a long time versus one that offers more money, is unstable, and is in an industry out of your comfort zone. This is just me, but if I am unemployed for a year and offered two jobs, I will work in the industry where I feel called. The money is nice but does not make up for added stress and anxiety. I have done both and never regretted following my dream job. I have, however, regretted following the money.
If you have already "agreed to" the upper bounds, the only way to ask for more is if you have another offer for more money that you are considering as well.
AnonymousMarch 27,2023 at 4:27PM UTC
If you get the offer from the place that will fuel your career aspirations take it. Money is one thing but job sat is the most important. Definitely don't take for granted the first job as it does sound like that is where you prefer to be. If you get an offer from the first company be grateful ask if there is any wiggle room, but if they say no be prepared to walk away with grace or to just accept the role as is. Don't play one off the other as you could lose both. Good luck.