My boss and the CEO are way too close.

My boss and the CEO are way too close.

My boss isn’t very skilled, and most of the time, she just parrots back the things I say and agrees with my direction and vision. Initially, I thought this was great, but after being in the role for six months, I’m starting to sense that she’s just pumping me for information to share with the CEO. For example, she recently asked if I had completed my goals for the year. I asked her about hers, as they should be aligned with mine. She seemed sheepish, so I probed further and asked, "Well, what goals do you have with your boss—the CEO?" She replied, "Oh, none," and then added, "You played that well." I had no idea what she meant, and I walked away thinking I had offended her. Only later did it dawn on me that she might need my ideas to share with the CEO.

For context, I took this role because of the title and salary, but the organization's maturity is far below the industry standards I’m used to. Based on my previous experience, I could easily be the CEO here, as I’ve worked at a much larger scale in other companies.

On Friday, there was an opportunity to secure additional resources, something I helped enable through a workload review with HR. HR had set it up so that my manager would stay out of it, but I kept her in the loop to avoid any surprises. Now, she’s playing dumb about the need for a new hire—acting completely blank. I interpret this as her not wanting to ask for more resources, which makes no sense given the entire purpose of the review. Her incompetence is mind-boggling.

I set up time with her after the meeting to discuss it and asked if there was anything she needed to tell me or wanted to say. She turned red and insisted that nothing was wrong, even though it was clear something was off. She went on to agree with all my points but still claimed everything was fine. That same day, the CEO was fawning over me, likely because my reaction and the meeting I called seemed to have pushed some sort of panic button.

There’s a total values clash here. I work hard, aim to learn consistently, and genuinely want to make an impact. Meanwhile, she seems to have managed her career by taking others' ideas or undermining them. I’m not happy at all, to be fair. It's time to move on

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  1. Anonymous

    Yep move on. Sounds like your boss is a twit and is not as smart as you and could feel intimidated by you. She just seems unprofessional and there for the title but can’t prove it in her work. It also sounds like you have more experience. Hope you can find a better job that lets your skills shine! Good luck!

  2. Anonymous

    Agreed. It's time to move on

  3. Anonymous

    I just ran into this very issue in a major healthcare organization. Definitely prepare to move on because it probably won't get better and if anything, the two-headed monster will turn against you especially the more you show your competence which likely surpasses theirs.

  4. Anonymous

    I would move on. For whatever reason, you seem to be caught in the middle between your boss and the CEO, which is not a good place to be. It also appears that you and your boss are just not aligned, and again, that's not a good situation to be in.

  5. Anonymous

    Start looking but at the same time keep feeding your boss info so she will keep you around as long as possible = paycheck .

    KEEP SMILING !!

  6. Anonymous

    Yikes... that's know it all response

  7. Anonymous

    What part of "only been with their employer for merely six months" were you unable to understand?

  8. Anonymous

    I just went through this. I have to agree with your assessment of thing. Start looking and move on. It's tiring when you work for an incompetent boss that is stealing your ideas and using you to hold their position. It doesn't get better, so the best course of action is to leave and don't feel bad about it or question yourself. There are a ton of managers out there like your current boss.

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