Just got offered today a third job.

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October 1,2021 at 1:23AM UTC

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Just got offered today a third job. Remote. Decent money. But feel so uninspired. Is this what life is? Jobs? Work? I’m so depressed.. Would like to move on and start my next life. I can’t take lying In this cess pool anymore. Please help.

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AnonymousOctober 1,2021 at 2:11AM UTC
Only you can describe your life and your choices as a cess pool. Seems odd you are not making radical moves to improve things. Aren't you worth bold moves? Or are you just stuck? Lost?
Please consider therapy because honestly life should not be this dark. Reaching out for help is tge best thing you can do when you just can't lift yourself up. Depression robs a person of joy and that feeling anything is possible. Therapy and maybe some medication (it doesn't have to be forever) can give you a chance to see things differently and get you back on a track where there is joy and laughter and a reason to jump out of bed each morning.
VictoriaOctober 1,2021 at 3:06AM UTC
A third offer is super impressive! I think there are two parts to your questions. The first is, are you feeling uninspired because of the work you are doing? Or two, are you feeling uninspired because you're experiencing depression? If its the first, then I would encourage you to take that courageous leap forward into your next life where you run the show. Working at a company is not for everyone and it sounds like (this could be a huge judgement) that you are more of a free spirit! (?) I would just be sure to make sure you are ready to take on the insecurity that may come from changing careers and lifestyles. If you are depressed, then try your best to reach out for support. I went through a period where I could barely eat, get out of bed, and cried almost every time I left my home. I was fortunate to not have to work at that time, but it was the hardest time of my life. I got through it with therapy, medication, and lots of support. This may not be your journey but if you identify with any of it, know that you are not alone and your feelings will pass. Good luck!
AnonymousOctober 1,2021 at 4:48PM UTC
I think yes, right now, this is what life is. I say take it for the experience and for the money, but keep looking for what inspires you. Work is not a wish-granting machine. Feel good about being offered something. It means someone sees your value But you don't owe them your life. You don't say if you're already working. If so, and you don't have to take this job, I wouldn't.
Nic Frick | Career Coach for New MomsOctober 6,2021 at 11:16PM UTC
This is not what life is when we have the support we need like therapy and a good support network of friends and family.
If you're not inspired by the role right now but need the money, I'd advise you to take it.
If you don't need the money, I'd advise you to wait and get clear on what you actually want and possibly hire a therapist and/or coach to get you out of the "cesspool".
DeLisa DawkinsOctober 12,2021 at 2:43AM UTC
Only you can define the joy in your life. If the role brings you joy; the money will follow. You must determine what makes you smile and bring purpose to your life so that you can enjoy your days. Again, you are the designer of your life path.