Careers advice for single parents of 3 with a special needs child
HR Specialist experienced in HR life cycle
November 13,2019 at 5:04AM UTC (Edited)
I’m a full time working single mom to 2 teenage daughters and a special needs child. Though I enjoy working and keeping busy with my kids, most of my time is spent doing just those. My social and personal life have suffered as a result of that. I find it challenging to connect socially with my colleagues since I’m not always attuned to the latest social events or references and dating someone who can accommodate such schedule has been almost impossible. It has greatly limited my relationship-building skills with colleagues and impacting me professionally. I was wondering if anyone here has or had experienced similar situations and what has been proven helpful to you, career and personal wise.
Greatly appreciate any thoughts!
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