Careers advice for single parents of 3 with a special needs child

I’m a full time working single mom to 2 teenage daughters and a special needs child. Though I enjoy working and keeping busy with my kids, most of my time is spent doing just those. My social and personal life have suffered as a result of that. I find it challenging to connect socially with my colleagues since I’m not always attuned to the latest social events or references and dating someone who can accommodate such schedule has been almost impossible. It has greatly limited my relationship-building skills with colleagues and impacting me professionally. I was wondering if anyone here has or had experienced similar situations and what has been proven helpful to you, career and personal wise.

Greatly appreciate any thoughts!

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  1. Peg Bittner

    My mother was in a similar situation. She had four kids at home with one being a special needs child. The one thing she had on her side was her oldest at the time was 17 and was able to work with their little brother. As for the mother's interaction with co-workers, they supported her in her dealings and life with her son. They never put pressure on her to be at any social gatherings but they always did invite her. She would go when the timing was right. Her dating life was put on hold until her son was a little older and a little more self reliant. It did all work out for everyone. Mom never did remarry, she once said, there is no one who can replace the very best.

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