New role not working out...

Anonymous

June 13,2023 at 4:23AM UTC

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New role not working out...

I've started to look as I don't think this company is the right fit for me but in my specialty, jobs have been scarce in the market. Any tips on how I can stay positive in this role until I find another? I keep telling myself it's just a job but it's sucking the soul out of me.

Stress has been high and I'm growing frustrated, mainly due to the culture...

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Joan Williams, Senior Talent Acquisition SpecialistJune 13,2023 at 5:47AM UTC
You've already taken the first step. You know you're leaving, it's just a matter of time. It always makes it a little easier for me when I know my current situation is not going to be my long term future - that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
Hang in there - YOU CAN DO IT!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!
Maria Paula CalvoJune 13,2023 at 2:43PM UTC
If you´ve just started with this role you may take advantage of recent contacts to accelerate the change to a new company and challenge. That can help you stay motivated. Also, focusing on doing your present job without nurturing other expectations in your present work environment may diminish stress and the sense of frustration. You are in the right path! Keep up and you will soon get what you deserve :)
AnonymousJune 14,2023 at 8:17PM UTC
Balance, go for walks during lunch. At 5 (or whenever you end your day) unplug 100%. Do something like yoga or treat yourself to something that is personally soothing every day that takes your brain away from the work issues. You could diary it and then keep that journal as a reminder when you move on of what triggers you and won't work in your next employer. Breathe, also don't forget to breathe.
AnonymousJune 15,2023 at 12:59AM UTC
I'm in the same place as you! I compartmentalize everything. It helps to keep things in perspective. My whole identity is not tied to my work. It's just a part of it. Distance yourself and focus on where you're going-not where you're at.
AnonymousJune 16,2023 at 12:20PM UTC
I’m also in the same boat. Just keep looking for new jobs. It’s hard when you work already. Trust me I know. I’m interviewing on my days off or at odd times. Focus on what you can control, let go of the rest. Remember you are not your job and eventually you’ll move on.