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Hello! I was presented with a job opportunity today that has me thrown for a loop. It is outside of my normal comfort zone and a position with a bit of power and exposure to the entire company, executive committee and direct board interaction. My mind is in a spin and I need some guidance on general questions I should be asking before I make a career changing decision!

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  1. Kat Reel

    If the career move sounds exciting and has your best interests, I would do it! What I recently done was a pro and con list for a job I was picked for. Unfortunately there were way more cons, so respectfully declined.

  2. Kimberly Johnson

    I am assuming this is at your present company? For starters:

    1. Job description/scope of work & title
    2. Internal Reporting structure & approval matrix (ie what can you authorize and what do you need approval for)
    3. Compensation package
    4. Effective date
    5. Transition plan details
    6. Perks (additional PTO, signing bonus, travel level (ie: first class),

    Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!

  3. Maegan, Nike Sales Rep & Career Coach

    Congrats! the comment below is on point :) hope it went well!

  4. Mikal Ann Byrd

    How exciting! You have a skill set that impressed them enough to make this offer. Ask what specifically about you made them decide you are a good fit for the position. Definitely sign a new offer letter that provides details about expectations for the role and the compensation package.

  5. Kathy

    While everyone here at FGB hopes this position is a positive for you I would definitely explore any challenges this position might have. As Kimberly Johnson suggested, after receiving the job description, scope and work title, ask about challenges. Are they attempting to place you in a position where others have failed? Perhaps there is something that makes the goals of the position unattainable.

    There is a phenomena called 'The Glass Cliff'.

    Women are placed in jobs where others have failed. The article below is about women being placed in charge of failing companies, the glass cliff can apply to individual jobs within a company too. I've seen it happen.

    Do your research. Speak to the person who held the job previously. Good luck.

    https://www.pbs.org/newshour/economy/women-often-put-charge-failing-companies

  6. Alexandria Wagner

    I was not aware of the Glass Cliff. Thank you for this.

  7. Kathy

    The Glass Cliff definitely needs more dissemination.

    As women we are 'thrilled' to finally be taken seriously then we find out it's a setup.

  8. Tarah Keech

    It’s so fun to know your effort and potential are recognized and valued!
    I coach leaders who have been in this exact situation and know this can be a mind and emotion stretch! Would be glad to talk it through with you and share where I see your sticking points any time. Cheers and congrats!

  9. Cathy Colliver

    I recently saw someone post that they asked in an interview, "Why should I work for this company?" For a position within leadership, that answer feels even more important. I always like to ask each person I meet with what they enjoy most about working there, and what they wish was different.

  10. Anonymous

    I wish more companies did this. And not just at hiring or an exit interview! The president of my company truly thinks everyone is delighted with how things are.

    He is completely wrong.

  11. Krista Pasfield

    I definitely agree with the questions other commenters recommended. Some additional questions, to direct at yourself:

    1) If you feel hesitant, why? Is it a lack of information? Something within yourself? Lack of confidence/imposter syndrome? Fear of change? (Be honest with yourself and yes, sometimes that can be really hard!)

    2) Pretend you've accepted the job. How does it feel? Conversely, pretend you've declined. Let each "decision" sit for a little while. Which do you feel more comfortable with and why?

    Remember, you were chosen for this role, so presumably whomever offered it believes you have the right stuff. Change can be scary, and hard, and daunting, but those feelings are often temporary if the move is the right one. Being methodical, logical, and honest with yourself in your evaluation will set you up for success, regardless of whether you say yes or no.

  12. Robyn Wick

    This is really great advice. Change is so scary sometimes and many of us are good at talking ourselves out of opportunities because we focus on what could go wrong instead of what could go right.

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