What to do if the current manager you have will not allow you to transfer to another position, we do not always see eye to eye and she is holding me back.

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May 9,2022 at 2:03PM UTC

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What to do if the current manager you have will not allow you to transfer to another position, we do not always see eye to eye and she is holding me back. I asked her for a recommendation but she didn’t even respond. I am thinking of going to HR before she makes me quit my job of 17 years. So sad someone toxic can ruin other people’s opportunities! What should I do? Quit or HR?

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LisaMay 9,2022 at 2:12PM UTC
Go to HR for a couple of reasons. They will be confidential and will give you ideas to navigate through to getting a new position. Documenting your concerns could protect you going forward from your current manager. :)
AnonymousMay 9,2022 at 7:32PM UTC
Thanks, probably will have to. No response is actually a response..
AnonymousMay 9,2022 at 4:09PM UTC
You do what's best for you. Surely you know the channels of escalation after 17 years. Maybe HR can help or maybe you need a new career path.
AnonymousMay 9,2022 at 7:31PM UTC
Thanks, I only know of HR, I’ve never had a toxic mgr before.
LeeAnn VincentMay 10,2022 at 1:26AM UTC
Find another job elsewhere. Go where you'll be valued.